Rules and Guidelines for non-staying submissive.

 Sometimes, the Dominant and submissive doesn't stay together. In some Asian countries, it is common and we are more accustomed to being far apart but we have the desire to keep in touch thru now, the Information Technology that is so advanced with smart-phone messaging, video calls. Of course, an occasional meet up is the utmost important in the D/s relationship. So, some tasks are best when both of these individuals meet and have a wonderful time together. I have come up with some Rules and Guidelines over some aspect of daily life that we should keep our submissive in check. There are others and more intense or better guidelines out on the internet. I am only putting some of these tasks and share with you. If you have other ideas as well, do let me know : 

Here are some things in no particular order. That you need to follow and do the best
you can to please your master. Some may just be a simple self-discipline behavior to
learn self control. In this list will include some tasks that are deemed sexually aroused by
your Master for you to perform. This is usually done when both of you are together in
person. However, if your Master is not present, you will have to snapshot or video record
and submit to your Master for approval. NOTE : All photos and videos submitted will not
be allowed to be shared publicly by both parties.
DAILY RULES:

1. Must use “Master”, Sir” at all times. (e.g. Thank you Master, Yes Sir, ok Master)

2. No vulgar words of any kind during your conversation with your Master. (e.g.

fuck, dang, shit) ** Unless it's during a role playing sex play.

a. When not with your Master and is messaging him on the app, no need to

type out vulgar words for your Master to read.

3. Every day, when you wake up, your Master would like a “Good Morning Master”

4. You will ask your Master’s permission when you want to masturbate.

a. You will also ask your Master’s permission on when you can cum when

you’re about to reach the height of cumming.

5. You will watch what you eat and have a healthy diet.

a. You will slim down to a sexier body to please your Master and as you said

you are willing to wear a latex thigh skirt to perform a catwalk at a public

place under instructions from your Master.

6. Your Master wants you to write (using a marker that is non-toxic) his title “Master

Dean” on some part of your body every week (or when the ink fades).

a. The Master will want to know where you wrote his name. Each time,

should be a different part of the body. You can repeat at the same place

after the 5th time)

b. A photo will be sent to your Master. The photo needs to include the whole

area of your body. Not just the part of the writing. (not a timer photo)

c. Colors of bra and panty are to be included in the message.

WEEKLY RULES & TASKS

1. Your Master wants you to dress up on every occasion that you go out with your

friends or family. And a full body photo will be sent to your Master. (not a timer

photo)

2. Once a week you will wear your pink panties+bra set.

d. If the pink set is not clean, the white or black set is ok, if none of them are

clean it is time to go commando (usually no bra+panties. But can be

applicable to no panties only) again! Even if you have already done so

once that week.

e. Not applicable if it’s the time of the month.

3. Once a week you will go commando (usually no bra+panties. But can be

applicable to no panties only)

a. Not applicable if it’s the time of the month

4. If your Master asks you to go commando (usually no bra+panties. But can be

applicable to no panties only) you will do that and that will count as your once a

week.

5. You will need to inform your Master when the time of the month starts and when

it ends. (an app will be used to keep track)

WHEN / MEETING UP WITH MASTER

1. You are required not to masturbate a day before you meet your Master.

2. Your Master will require you take off your panties before meeting with him. You

cannot bring along your panties. Your panties should be placed in your office.

Failure to do so, will result in your panties being confiscated on the spot.

3. No messaging on any of the messenger apps while meeting with your Master.

Unless it is urgent and needs to be replied to. Let your Master know the reason

that you need to reply.

4. No messaging on any of the messenger apps while in the car with your Master.

Unless it is urgent and needs to be replied to. Let your Master know the reason

that you need to reply.

5. You can be forced to flash your pussy (when you’re not wearing panties and in a

skirt or dress. Your Master will pretend to pick up something that is dropped under

the table)

6. You are required to masturbate in your panties and continue wearing them,

disregarding any spots that may appear.

7. Traveling by car naked or dressed in lingerie or a set. (when at longer distance

travel only covered with a shawl if the traffic is heavy)

8. Doing some of the “hidden” little things like plugs, nipple tape, nipple clamps.

9. Wearing a vibrator, with the controls in your master's pocket.

10. You can be forced to take your panties off at any time, return to the table (at

restaurant, cafe, park) and hand them to him.

11. You can be forced to masturbate beneath the table cloth while at a restaurant

or when in the car.

12. You can be forced to flash your nipples when no one seems to be looking at any

time anywhere.

Revised: 19 Dec 2020

Some Daily Rules and Routines for the Submissive

When you’re working full time, the desire to submit can be impeded by a good number of obstacles. As a submissive who balances their full-time employment with their submissive role, one of their most concerns will always be finding a way to please their dominant while maintaining a strong professional image outside of the home. Regardless, it was difficult to find any information about balancing a professional life with the submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the business world.

Researching through the internet for ideas of rules to give a submissive, but in the end, it seemed that a lot of rules found were for 24/7 slaves or submissive, and this was neither realistic nor something ready to commit to without some serious consideration and reflection on whether or not visible to enjoy submitting on a smaller scale. After a lot of consideration, I have incorporated them into this article so that you can see how, although intimate, these rules aren’t obtrusive or overbearing. They are copied and pasted directly from the article found. So they’re written as such:

• Once a week you will go commando.
• Not applicable if the time of the month
• If Master ask you to go commando you will do and that will count as your once a week.
  • Once a week you will wear your red panty/bra set.
    • If the red set is not clean, the tan or pink set is ok, if none of them are clean time to go commando again! Even if you have already done so once that week.
• Not applicable if the time of the month.
• Master wants you to write his name on some part of your body every day.
• Every day, when I wake up I would like an message telling me what you are going to wear that day and the name placement. Undergarments are to be included.

NO toys/brush without permission. (Hands are ok).

As mentioned, the nice thing about the rule-set was that it allowed a lot of leeway on whether or not submissive would be happy following the instructions. It also consisted of rules that it would follow on the days that at work as well as the days that at home.

Collar and Jewelry:

• I will wear my collar or something (dominant to give submissive an item) to be worn every day.
• I will adhere to any preference the Master have regarding which collar I am allowed to wear and for how long I may wear it each day.
• When we are together, I will ask the Master to put my collar on and to take it off for me.

I will adhere to any preferences that the Master have regarding the jewelry I wear.

Clothing:

• Each night, I will ask the Master if you have any preferences regarding my clothing for the next day; I will follow the instructions that you give me.
  • Condition 1. In the event that requested garments (i.e. panties, bras, socks, etc.) are dirty, I must default to condition 2a of my old set of rules which states that I must forego wearing any article of clothing in place of the one assigned.
• Condition 2. In the event that you have made a request for me to wear something that is not appropriate for work, I will make arrangements to wear one work-appropriate outfit during the day and change into the requested outfit during the evening.
• You may deny permission to wear any item I have selected, in which case, I must change my clothing, or I just skip the item.
• When we are together, I will ask you to approve of or pick out the clothing I have planned to wear for the next day.
• During the first three days of my cycle, I am to wear something comfortable.

During the day, if I wish to change clothing or take an item off, I must ask permission to do so.

Grooming/Hygiene:

• I will adhere to any preference you might have regarding whether I shower or take a bath.
• I will adhere to any preference you might have regarding whether I bathe/shower at night or in the morning.
• I will also adhere to any preference you have to which body lotion or perfume I use after I bathe/shower.

I will ask you if you have any preferences regarding what color I paint my nails before I paint them.

Daily Tasks:

• Each morning, I will write your name somewhere on my body
• Condition 1. If we are together, I will let you write your name on my body each morning.
• Each evening, I must write an e-mail to you describing in detail everything that I plan to wear the following day. This e-mail must include undergarments, my outfit, jewelry, perfume, and the location of the place I have chosen to write your name for that day, even if you assigned the items to me.
  • I will join you for a cup of tea when you ask.
• Condition 1. If I am at work and not able to make a cup of tea, I will make tea as soon as I can.
  • I will perform any other tasks given to me either the night prior to or throughout the day.
    • Condition 1. If I am unable to do the task due to location, I may request to postpone the task until I am in a location where performing the task is appropriate.
    • Condition 2. If I feel unable to perform the task due to lack of privacy, I may request to postpone the task until I have the privacy required to correctly perform the given task.

Condition 3. In the event that the task is sexual in nature and I am on my period, I may request to postpone the task until such time that I am comfortable performing it.

Playing:

• I must ask permission each time I wish to masturbate.
• I must also ask permission to orgasm.
• I must follow any instructions that you give me regarding what I am allowed to use, how long I am allowed to use it, etc. when I masturbate.
• If I am given instructions regarding masturbation prior to asking, I must follow those instructions to the best of my ability. See conditions Daily Tasks 4 sub(1-3).
• I must include an account of my play, including how long, in my nightly e-mail to you. See rule Daily Tasks 2.

If I wish to buy a new toy, I will make arrangements to sit down with you so that we can pick one out together.

This article was taken somewhere else and is written by an online submissive.

Sample Consensual "Slavery" Contract

 NOTE: It should go without saying that a "contract" such as this is not legally binding. Documents such as these are intended only to provide a fantasy environment for extended role-playing or to establish a D/s or M/s relationship. They are also not obligatory and one should not expect to have to sign a contract to enter into a D/s relationship. This is tool for communication.

1.0.0 Slave's Role

The slave agrees to submit completely to the master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the master without risking punishment, except in situations where the slave's veto (see section 1.0.1) applies. The slave also agrees that, once entered into the Slavery Contract, their body belongs to their master ,, to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein. All of the slave's possessions likewise belong to the master , including all assets, finances, and material goods, to do with as they see fit. The slave agrees to please the master to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said master .

1.0.1 Slave's Veto

The slave, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the master , at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both master and slave:

1. Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the slave .
2. Where said command may cause extreme damage to slave's life, such as losing their job, causing family stress, etc.
3. Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0) to the slave .
4. Where said command may cause psychological trauma to the slave, such as a rape scene for a slave that has been raped in the past.

2.0.0 Master's Role

The master accepts the responsibility of the slave's body and worldly possessions, to do with as they see fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The master agrees to care for the slave , to arrange for the safety and well-being o f the slave , as long as they own the slave . The master also accepts the commitment to treat the slave properly, to train the slave, punish the slave, love the slave, and use the slave as they see fit.

3.0.0 Punishment

The slave agrees to accept any punishment the master decides to inflict, whether earned or not.

3.0.1 Rules of Punishment

Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.0.0). Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:

1. Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
2. Burning the body
3. Drastic loss of circulation
4. Causing internal bleeding
5. Loss of consciousness
6. Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time

4.0.0 Permanent Bodily Harm

Since the body of the slave now belongs to the master , it is the master's responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm. Should the slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slavery related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract, should the slave so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as:

1. Death
2. Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.
3. Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the slave .
4. Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the slave .
5. Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the slave .
6. Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases.

5.0.0 Others

The slave may not seek any other master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the master's permission. To do so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in extreme punishment. The master may accept other slaves or lovers, but must consider the slave's emotional response to such actions and act accordingly. Under no circumstance should the master allow such actions to unbalance the slave emotionally, or allow such actions to result in ignoring the slave .

The master may give the slave to other masters, provided the rules of this contract are upheld. In such a situation, the master will inform the new master of the provisions stated herein, and any breach by the new master will be considered a breach by the master as well, subject to all rules stated in this contract.

6.0.0 Secrecy

All physical evidence of the slavery will be kept in total secrecy, except where both master and slave agree. Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties.

7.0.0 Alteration of Contract

This contract may not be altered, except when both master and slave agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.

8.0.0 Termination of Contract

This contract may be terminated at any time by the master , but never by the slave, except under special conditions explained within this contract. Upon termination, all physical evidence of the slavery, including this contract, will be destroyed, and all materials and belongings shall belong to the master , to be shared or kept as they see fit. The slave , owning nothing and having agreed to give up all worldly possessions and body to the master , shall once again own their body, but nothing else, unless the master decides to give back their possessions.

9.0.0 Slave's Signature

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give everything I own to my master, and further accept their claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand tha I will be commanded and trained and punished as a slave, and I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my master to the best of my abilities. I understand that I cannot withdraw from this contract except as stated in this contract.

Signature:____________

9.0.1 Master's Signature

I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this slave as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a slave. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the slave as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time.

Signature:____________

Sample Dominant/submissive Contract (sample one)

 Dominant/submissive Contract

This contract contains the elements of a D/s staying together. However, it is also applicable for those that is having a Long Distance Relationship or is not staying together. The context text is denoted with strike-through font.