The Music Teacher

[2010]

Met her on a dating app. We converse a few times thru the dating app before moving to messenger where decided to meet up since my line of work somehow manage to help out in her profession. So, we set a meet up date to discuss further. 

She owns a shop upstairs along a row of shop lots. She's a music teacher tutoring kids. So, I reached her place and waited for her to finish her class. She gestured me to wait until all the kids left the place and closed the doors with a "close" sign. 

We were still very awkward towards each other as most of our conversation weren't really sexual related. More like business and leisure. So, I started to explain my work and how to help out in her businesses. After a few talks, she suddenly says her shoulders feel kind of stiff and asked me if I'm good with my hands. I stand up and went behind her and start to give her a good shoulder massage. I noticed her bra was actually unbuckled and loose, standing from behind, I can catch her pointy perky nipples. She then started moaning and pully my hands from massaging her shoulders lower to touch her nipples and breast. She moan more when I start to take the initiative to pinch and flick her hard pointy nipples. Noticed she has unbutton her blouse all the way down. So, i pull her blouse down and her bra fell in front.. now her top is  totally naked. 

Instant hardon by then when asked me to give her shoulder a massage. I then lean forward and planted my lips on her shoulders. Moving the kisses to her neck while still harassing her boobs and nipples. Turning around now to face her, I grab hold of her neck slightly roughly and hold on to her chin. She gasp and open her mouth, I then kiss her with my tongue playing with her tongue. It was like a Japanese porn scene where the kissing was turning into a slurping rough kisses. She had to push me away because the kissing was taking in all the air she couldn't breath out. She was panting but with a smile on her face and noticed her eyes was sparkling horny. 

We had to stop as the office phone rang and that her mom was reaching. We said our goodbyes and to keep in touch on messenger for a more undisturbed meet up. 

Later that same night we constantly keep in touch thru messenger and even had video cam each other. And we start to undress to view each other.. and playing with our private parts. She initiate another meet up and told me on which day to visit her as she has the whole day off. 

The day came, it was about a week later. I reached her shop in the morning around 10am. Her shop already had a close sign, placed up. I txt her and she said "the door wasn't lock. But lock it when you come in". I close the gate and padlock it from inside. Walked up the stairs to her shop. I checkout the other classes in the shop. There's a room filled with 2 big mirrors from the top till the bottom of the wall. And the other side was a big glass window with curtains drawn. 

My wood was already rising and so hard to hide it from showing on my pants. What's more surprising was when she walked into the room wearing a scarlet red lacy lingerie in high heels. I totally couldn't stand it. I qas feeling so turned on and hard as a oak wood. She pushed me to the center of the same room with curtains drawn out, mirrors reflecting the sun. She then turn on the central room air-cond. Then on her knees, she start unbuckling my belt and pants. She trip me down and just started giving me a blowjob. I grab her head by her hair and slowly fucking her mouth. She was moaning, and once withdraw my cock from her mouth, she starts to lick my balls. By then, I was already getting myself naked with only my socks on. She gesture me to lie down by pulling my waist. I followed her instructions readily. I asked her if she wants to rubber me, but she shook her head and said "no, I want to ride you raw!". She wasn't wearing any G-string underneath her red lacy lingerie, she was already ready to ride me. Could feel her pussy was wet and warm as she slips my cock in. She ooze out a soft moan. I was already enjoying the view and her pussy. I pull myself up halfway, so I could pull her lingerie off down to her waist. Exposing her perky nipples and grabbing the boobs roughly. She was still riding me in a giddy up movement. I clawed her breast. She moan louder enjoying my nails clawing her. I start to spank her breast and she start riding me harder. I felt a slight warmer juice flowing. And I questioned her "was that a good cum, dear?" "Yes! Yes! Yes!" She replied with gasping and moaning. 

Noticed she was a little exhausted from the riding. So, I took over, this time, I help her take off her lingerie. Both stark naked, we were standing and kissing and moving from the room we were in, moving to out to where I saw a small staircase. Time for some doggy action on staircase. Pushing her back down low I push my still hard cock from behind her, spanking her ass while pounding her pussy. She was already in a wild trance moaning louder ar each thrust I pound her pussy.  It got wilder as I start to pull her up with my hand on her neck as if almost choking her but within her moaning, I could hear her whispering "fuck me hard please, harder, harder, going to cum again". Her words were so hot I began to thrust and pound her until you can hear the banging loudly between our skin. I almost at my exhausting limit but same time I could feel like my load ia about to burst. Then suddenly could be she felt that I was slowing down, she did something really amazing. I could feel my cock as if being squeezed by her pussy muscles. It was an awesome feeling. I just had to grunt and panting saying "I'm cumming, I'm going to shoot". She automatically pulls out and turn around facing me, and start cocking into her mouth. "I'm cumming.. ". my last gasp when my load shoots straight into her mouth. She finishes the tiny bits of my cum sucking my head cleanly.  She had that "still horny" smile on her face. I lean forward to kiss her tasting my cum as well. Not wanting to end, we moved places to the front office area where there is a small couch and where the only air-cond is turned on. I have her seated on the couch, spreading her legs, and I start spanking her inner thigh, and pussy as well. Instantly she starts her moaning again that's when I know she is wet and ready. I start my hand motion left and right vigorously along her pussy till its really wet and sum oozing out. She keep chanting "put it in, put it in" repeatedly. I start to finger fuck her straight away 2 fingers. She gasp at each thrust of my fingers. "I'm cumming, I'm cumming", she cums really hard each time more wet and wet. Then she suddenly grab my hand to stop. I looked at her in the eyes and asked "how many times did you cum already". She was gasping and panting, couldn't really focus but tilted her head to the back and then face forward focusing back her eyes at me answering "4 times". So total? I asked again. "3, 3, 4.. " she's panting between her heavy breathing.....

First Fetlife Encounter

[2016]

My first fetlife encounter. I spotted her on a location search. Message her first to add as friends. From there, we texted a few times and exchanged messenger contacts and kept contacting. 

She works as a sales promoter at an old shopping center at a small urban township in KL. We set up a date and time to meet. It was the weekend and tge only time to meet was during her lunch break at 4pm. So, I drove over to the shopping center. Its an old shopping center within an urban township surrounded with shoplots. Parking was easy as not many people visits the old shopping center, as its main focus was the supermarket. The underground car park was old and has dimmed lighting. First thought comes to my mind is this could be nice place for some discreet public car park action. 

So I parked the car and went into the shopping center, walked around while still txting her. She says it will take a few more minutes befoee she can take her break. So, I just do a walk by checking her out. She is small size around 5 feet 2, slim. Just finished highschool, doing part time work before furthering studies. 

We met outside of the supermarket but still within the shopping center. We talked a bit while she eats. I had a drink. When she finished, I told her that since Incam all the way, we should get closer and I suggested maybe a kiss some place around the corner. She let me to the far corner of the area near a service lift. And wanted to kiss me, I stopped her as I noticed a cctv cam right in front of the elevator doors. I quickly hold her and drag her to the emergency staircase behind the door. And we kissed. I got more daring, I unbutton her tshirt and grab hold of her boobs and gave her nipple a squeeze. She looked up and I can see that she likes what I was doing to her with her cheeky smile. We kissed  a few more times then stopped as her shift hours starts back. I said my goodbyes and promised to txt her more later and planned anothet meet up. 

It was probably 2 weeks later when I planned to meet up with her again. This time I set-up the stage for a more daring action. I asked her to faster finish up her eating earlier so we can spend more time. This time instead of emergency stairway, we went to my parked car instead since the carpark was very dim. We got into my car, straight to the backseat.  I already had my windows covered after parking my car and before seeing her. 

We kissed deeply and roughly as she says she like to be handled roughly. I gor more daring and unzip her pants, pull down her panties too and kissing her thigh then touch her pussy, its already wet and ready for my fingers. She automatically spread her legs apart, knowing and willingly consented me to finger her. Since she is petite in size, movements in the backsear was also easier. I was fingering her wet pussy deeply while she was giving me a blowjob. Her blowing was so good, I couldn't contain my horny feeling. I told her, "I'm so horny dear, let's do it now". She wasn't surprised but only said "just don't shoot in". I pull down my jeans all the way down to my ankles. And she did the wildest thing. She took off her pants, tshirt and bra.. she was like totally naked. She just keep reminding me "don't shot in, please". As I was going to fuck her pussy raw!  It felt so good coz her pusy was already all wet and warm. I was way too horny at that moment, I seldom cum so fast, but I guess she really did a good job as I could felt her pussy muscles clenching on my hardon as she goes up and down on my cock. I could really feel that I was going to shoot. I quickly pull out and tge ooze of my manhood gushes out like a mini fountain. She was so eager to suck my load off!  I actually wanted to continue fucking her but I think its a bad idea especially when I have already shot my load. And no rubber with me or in the car in sight. She puts on her clothes and says our goodbyes. 

The Classified Encounter

[2017]

I posted an ad at a local classified website looking for discreet relationship. I received a reply with a phone number seeking interest to my personal ad. We then started conversing on WhatsApp and later setting a meet up around the following week. 

We met up at starbucks in a shopping mall which is to her convenience as she is not familiar with the roads. She is Ukrainian nationality but married to a British expat working here.  We talked a bit over coffee about what she likes and if she likes me or not. We ended the meet up after over an hour. I escorted her back to her car, and we kissed with tongue. Promising to continue our intimate chats over WhatsApp further. 

Our next meet up, well her navigation was still not too good so, I found a half abandon shopping mall where the carpark was upper level and seems to have some floors with not many cars parked. I set the mood with her to try some car park scene. She was eager to try out the experience. So the day came, I drove earlier to the place to check out the area and where I should park my car. When the time comes, she parked next to my car and jumped into my car. My windows are a little more tinted than her car. So, that's the obvious choice. As she jumps in wearing a yellow dress with sunflower spots, she told me she was wearing knickers shorts. I immediately instructed her to remove them as where we're going, she won't need to have them on. I drove up further a few levels where only one or two cars parked. I make sure to park facing the wall. Turned off the engine and set up additional window covers on the side doors. I gesture her to crawl to the back seat. I entered the back seat as well and that's where the excitement starts. 

We kissed first as usual. Her kiss was aggressive yet tender.  She was pretty horny as she first reached out immediately to unfasten my belt and pants. I was already having a hard on since when she arrived and jumping into my car seat. And she was already helping herself as her hands was touching and masaaging my manhood when I started driving up to find the good spot to park the car. 

She was like so hungry giving me a fantastic blowjob. I couldn't contain and almost about to explode. She was on fours on the backseat, so I reached out and pull her dress up. Give her ass a spank and she squeal under her throat while she was giving me the blow. I reached further and noticed that she was already really wet. I lifted her head up and told her that I won't shoot my load until she at least cum more than twice. She was gasping for air and I planted my lips on hers as if to make her hold her breath more. I have her sit her righ leg on my left thigh, legs spread, I began to spank her thigh near her pussy. She gasp loudly almost moaning. I start to finger her pussy.. and there goes in my 2 fingers. She likes it a lot and sort of hold onto my hand as if guiding my hands to shove in my fingers deeper into her wet hot pussy. I slap her pussy as if I was fucking her. Well, literally,  I was finger fucking her. She loves it so much, she keeps repeating the words "oh fuck yes.. yes.. yes.. don't stop". 

I felt some hot gushing on my hands after a while, she was still grabbing on my hand like pulling it and holding my 2 fingers deeply inside her. She was also gasping and panting heavily. So, I had to ask.. "you cum?". She whispered between her breathing,  "yes three times already. I hold on to not squirting. I was afraid to wet all over your seat. But then third time, I just couldn't hold it". She explained that it was like a pee feeling and can control. But probably her third cum, she just couldn't hold it and let it all out. I said it was ok. I can have it cleaned up later. She pull out my fingers and licked them. It turned me really on I had to kiss her. Our lips lock again. I grabbed her by the neck and intensified the kiss deeper. I didn't get to lick and nibble on her nipples though as her dress top, well, you can say that I would have to take off her dress to do that. 

A few cars have passed by while we were in action. I notice it during the finger fucking session. So, we had to cut short the session. It seems like it was the same car that keeps passing by. I was half satisfied but knowing she had a fantastic cumming time. I too was also satisfied in that sense. Maybe I will get more action in my next session. 

Short Story - Car Park

 
My 2nd meet up with my pet sub and 1st D/s play starts a simple underground car parking space in a business park building. The building is old, so no parking light indicators, no cctv (exception at lift lobbies only). It was an hour session only. So timing is crucial but like most things, sometimes can’t be too punctual. I reached the parking lot half an hour earlier.. looking for a well secluded lot. But not too hidden. As there’s a security guard that rides his motorbike and does rounding from time to time. 

So, I got her a chocolate bun from a nearby bakery, her favorite is chocolate, so close enough. She arrived, I escorted her to where my car is parked.  I instructed her to take off her panties and not to wear her panties when she is on her way to meet me. 

When we arrived at my car, which I have already prepared blocking  with shades even though my car is tinted, but its not that dark. First thing, I took out my handmade handcuff, and put it on her. Her hands behind her back. Cops style of putting bad girls behind passenger’s side of the car. This is where things got exciting. She told me before the meet, she’s wearing new polkadot bra and a pink panties. Well that’s where the interesting part started… she didn’t follow my instructions.. she was still wearing her panties while meeting me. First thing I did was pull down her pants and I noticed she was still wearing her pink panties! What?! I sternly stared and ask why she disobeyed me. I forcedly removed her panties on the spot. Telling her that I’m confiscating the pink panties. I then start to feel her pussy with my hand.. oh its so wet already, and I start to play with her already wet pussy.. 2 fingers digging in deeper deeply. Slapping her pussy and pumping her pussy with my hand pap pap pap like fucking.. hearing her whisper moans. Once in a while I would pull her bra down and suck on her perky nipples, tongue kissing her until she feel breathless gasping for air…..

7 RULES FOR A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

 Long-Distance relationships are hard, but especially for those that are Dom/sub.  It can be difficult to keep the dynamic going when you’re apart and problems and issues arise. There’s also a lot of bad advice and tips on the internet.  But even if you’re apart for just a day, or if circumstances make it so you’re separated for months, a long-distance D/s relationship can still succeed.  Both the Dominant and submissive have to work at it though. So here are some ideas for rules to keep in mind.

1.  Avoid long-distance relationship problems when using technology

Technology can be a lifesaver in a long-distance relationship.  Texting especially can be easy and convenient, but after a while you may find it gets boring.  Don’t neglect all the other kinky ways you can enjoy technology.  Get creative and think outside the box, and soon you’ll begin to feel much closer.  Here are some ideas:

• Use FaceTime, Video Call - There’s so many possibilities with this one.  You could have a meal together, have phone sex, play games, or even have a virtual play session.  Just prop up your phone or tablet in the room, and have the Dominant give the submissive instructions.
• Watch a BDSM movie together- You can each set it up on your own PC and tablet and press play at the same time.
• Use an online journal- This is a must whether you’re long-distance or not.  A sub should have a journal they can write freely in, and the Dom should have access to it at all times.

2.  Overcome commitment issues as a Dominant or submissive

Some people get stuck in a long-distance relationship because they feel obligated to stay for one reason or another.  Be honest with your partner about what you want out of the relationship, but more importantly, be honest with yourself.

Do you really want to be in a long-distance relationship when you could be meeting other people?  If the answer is ‘yes’, then stop playing games, and work on building trust together.  Here are some other tips to prevent problems and issues from arising:

• Be patient- Even if you were physically together before things became long-distance, the new situation will take time for both of you to become comfortable.
• Have real-life interactions- Show your commitment by making and keeping plans to meet face-to-face.
• Make a contract together- A contract helps both a Dom and a sub to clearly know what their roles are in the relationship, and what’s expected of them.

3.  Create a detailed Dom/sub schedule

Having set tasks to do everyday is the perfect way to make a submissive not feel so lonely.  An assigned list keeps the Dominant in control of their partner, even when issues come up and they can’t be there physically.

A schedule also keeps the sub focused, because they don’t have to get overwhelmed with making choices or dealing with other problems. Here are some ideas for a schedule:

• Set wake up and go to bed times
• Meal times
• Time blocks for journal or kneeling
• “Little Space” activities like coloring or watching cartoons
• A certain BDSM topic to research each day
• A set exercise schedule

It’s also important to schedule in aftercare for the submissive to prevent “sub-drop”. Dom can instruct the sub to perform each task.

4.  Use gifts and games to keep things new and exciting

Everyone loves receiving gifts. When a Dominant gives their submissive a gift it reassures them of their affection and approval.  Little especially need to receive gifts regularly, but Doms like getting presents too. Here are some ideas:

• A collar
• Stuffie or blanket to comfort the sub when the Dom is away
• Matching rings or other jewelry
• Kinky toys to use when you’re together

Games are another fun way to keep a Dom and sub connected.  You can play games over the phone or text, and they are a great way to get to know each other better. Two of my favorite games are “Would You Rather” and “2 Truths and a Lie.”  Keep it kinky and you’re sure to have a lot of fun.

5.  Get creative with rules and punishment ideas

Just because you’re apart doesn’t mean that a disobedient sub can’t be punished or be given rules.  Of course, a traditional spanking by the Dominant may be out of the question, but there are so many different ways to discipline a submissive from a distance.  Here are some ideas for rules and punishments:

Rules:

• Not being able to eat junk food and having to text all their meals.
• Letting the Dom choose the sub’s clothes or undergarments for the day.
• Texting when you go out with friends, and when you come home.

Punishments:

• Taking a cold shower for 1 or 2 minutes and having to videotape themselves.
• Snapping a rubber band on their wrist a certain number of times.
• Wearing nipple clamps and texting a picture as proof.
• Having to write the same sentence 50 times and mailing it to the Dom.

6.  Take an online BDSM course together for step-by-step tips

Online courses are great for long-distance couples because they get you communicating and experimenting together, even while you’re apart. An online training program will help you deal with the issues and problems of a long-distance relationship.

You’ll have a detailed, step-by-step plan to have a better, more satisfying connection, and to take your BDSM relationship to the next level.  An e-Course is a great way for both of you to have an online mentor and coach, giving you reliable advice and tips to help you every step of the way. (They also make a great surprise gift!)

7.  Set an end date for your long-distance D/s relationship

Even if you’re having fun and enjoying your long-distance D/s relationship, it needs to end at some point.  Hopefully this means that whatever situation is keeping you apart will be resolved and you can physically be together permanently. 

Setting a date for this to happen will help both of you to endure the hard times, prevent problems and issues, and give you something to look forward to.  So set an end date together, and work hard to make it happen. The free worksheet below can make this easier.

Remember, a long-distance D/s relationship isn’t easy, but so is anything worth fighting for. Follow the rules and tips here and in the worksheet and you’re sure to have success. If you can trust, respect, and support each other when you’re apart, imagine how powerful your bond will be once you’re together.  ????

 Original article found at: https://domsubliving.com/long-distance-relationship-rules-worksheet/

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