Some Daily Rules and Routines for the Submissive

When you’re working full time, the desire to submit can be impeded by a good number of obstacles. As a submissive who balances their full-time employment with their submissive role, one of their most concerns will always be finding a way to please their dominant while maintaining a strong professional image outside of the home. Regardless, it was difficult to find any information about balancing a professional life with the submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the business world.

Researching through the internet for ideas of rules to give a submissive, but in the end, it seemed that a lot of rules found were for 24/7 slaves or submissive, and this was neither realistic nor something ready to commit to without some serious consideration and reflection on whether or not visible to enjoy submitting on a smaller scale. After a lot of consideration, I have incorporated them into this article so that you can see how, although intimate, these rules aren’t obtrusive or overbearing. They are copied and pasted directly from the article found. So they’re written as such:

• Once a week you will go commando.
• Not applicable if the time of the month
• If Master ask you to go commando you will do and that will count as your once a week.
  • Once a week you will wear your red panty/bra set.
    • If the red set is not clean, the tan or pink set is ok, if none of them are clean time to go commando again! Even if you have already done so once that week.
• Not applicable if the time of the month.
• Master wants you to write his name on some part of your body every day.
• Every day, when I wake up I would like an message telling me what you are going to wear that day and the name placement. Undergarments are to be included.

NO toys/brush without permission. (Hands are ok).

As mentioned, the nice thing about the rule-set was that it allowed a lot of leeway on whether or not submissive would be happy following the instructions. It also consisted of rules that it would follow on the days that at work as well as the days that at home.

Collar and Jewelry:

• I will wear my collar or something (dominant to give submissive an item) to be worn every day.
• I will adhere to any preference the Master have regarding which collar I am allowed to wear and for how long I may wear it each day.
• When we are together, I will ask the Master to put my collar on and to take it off for me.

I will adhere to any preferences that the Master have regarding the jewelry I wear.

Clothing:

• Each night, I will ask the Master if you have any preferences regarding my clothing for the next day; I will follow the instructions that you give me.
  • Condition 1. In the event that requested garments (i.e. panties, bras, socks, etc.) are dirty, I must default to condition 2a of my old set of rules which states that I must forego wearing any article of clothing in place of the one assigned.
• Condition 2. In the event that you have made a request for me to wear something that is not appropriate for work, I will make arrangements to wear one work-appropriate outfit during the day and change into the requested outfit during the evening.
• You may deny permission to wear any item I have selected, in which case, I must change my clothing, or I just skip the item.
• When we are together, I will ask you to approve of or pick out the clothing I have planned to wear for the next day.
• During the first three days of my cycle, I am to wear something comfortable.

During the day, if I wish to change clothing or take an item off, I must ask permission to do so.

Grooming/Hygiene:

• I will adhere to any preference you might have regarding whether I shower or take a bath.
• I will adhere to any preference you might have regarding whether I bathe/shower at night or in the morning.
• I will also adhere to any preference you have to which body lotion or perfume I use after I bathe/shower.

I will ask you if you have any preferences regarding what color I paint my nails before I paint them.

Daily Tasks:

• Each morning, I will write your name somewhere on my body
• Condition 1. If we are together, I will let you write your name on my body each morning.
• Each evening, I must write an e-mail to you describing in detail everything that I plan to wear the following day. This e-mail must include undergarments, my outfit, jewelry, perfume, and the location of the place I have chosen to write your name for that day, even if you assigned the items to me.
  • I will join you for a cup of tea when you ask.
• Condition 1. If I am at work and not able to make a cup of tea, I will make tea as soon as I can.
  • I will perform any other tasks given to me either the night prior to or throughout the day.
    • Condition 1. If I am unable to do the task due to location, I may request to postpone the task until I am in a location where performing the task is appropriate.
    • Condition 2. If I feel unable to perform the task due to lack of privacy, I may request to postpone the task until I have the privacy required to correctly perform the given task.

Condition 3. In the event that the task is sexual in nature and I am on my period, I may request to postpone the task until such time that I am comfortable performing it.

Playing:

• I must ask permission each time I wish to masturbate.
• I must also ask permission to orgasm.
• I must follow any instructions that you give me regarding what I am allowed to use, how long I am allowed to use it, etc. when I masturbate.
• If I am given instructions regarding masturbation prior to asking, I must follow those instructions to the best of my ability. See conditions Daily Tasks 4 sub(1-3).
• I must include an account of my play, including how long, in my nightly e-mail to you. See rule Daily Tasks 2.

If I wish to buy a new toy, I will make arrangements to sit down with you so that we can pick one out together.

This article was taken somewhere else and is written by an online submissive.