Here is something which I should really read up good and learned it by heart! Something for you guys to read and girls? Well, the girls can read too and please give me your opinions as well. An extra tip is always encouraged.
1. First and most important: ACCEPT THAT SHE CAN'T ALWAYS CUM. Sometimes it just isn't going to happen and that's okay. Every few months I have a day where I spend an hour doggedly trying to get myself off with absolutely nothing to show for it. I'm horny, hydrated, relaxed, enjoying the same fantasies/porn, using techniques that usually guarantee an orgasm within 5-20 minutes, but it's just not happening. There's no rhyme or reason to it.
2. Ancillary to this: accept that SHE DOESN'T ALWAYS WANT TO CUM. As a woman with complicated sexual proclivities, I can attest to the fact that orgasms are pretty far down the list of my goals. I can get myself off most any time, but if I'm by myself, who exactly am I going to order to kneel? Whose ass am I going to spank? If I have to choose between spending the average 20 minutes it takes to get off getting my pussy played with or a complex scene in which I tie someone up and stick a vibrator up their ass, I'll often chose the latter. It's my choice and any man who wants to stay in my life better sure as shit respect it.
3. DON'T MAKE IT ABOUT YOU. JUST DON’T. Not getting her to cum doesn't make you a failure. It doesn't mean you're not a man or not a good lover. It doesn't mean she'll immediately boot you out on your ass. If you want to be a real man, let it be about her and don't get all butt hurt or insecure or accusatory if she doesn't get there. Eventually, she'll either start faking because it's easier or she'll dump your myopic, self-centered, entitled little ass in favor of someone whose ego doesn't need constant service.
4. TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF. Seriously, don't make her feel like she owes it to you to cum. Never say "but I want to see you cum, baby" or "I'm not going to cum until you do" or "I'll feel bad if you don't" or, worst, "is there something wrong with you?" Ironically, trying really hard to cum makes it even harder to cum. Unless, of course, these things are part of a dynamic you BOTH agree you enjoy.
5. JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED TO CUM, DOESN'T MEAN IT'S SUDDENLY ALL ABOUT YOUR ORGASM. I'm quite happy to have a disproportionate orgasm ratio. I enjoy not having the pressure always on and I still love watching my partners come apart. But some take this for granted. They start thinking that every time we have sex is just a race to their orgasm, the end. These people get punted.
6. WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING HERSELF OFF, SHE'S ALWAYS RIGHT. If she needs a vibrator, let her use it. And if you're threatened by it, yes, you are less of a man. If she needs you to stand on one foot and hop three times, do it. Seriously, whatever it is, no matter how weird or unsexy for you, go along with it. By all means, find new things to try, but if she knows what works, you have to respect it or risk her losing respect for you. Just because you're Don Juan, King of the Clitoris Delta, does not mean that you know her body better than she does. Also, you should really learn how to use that vibrator. It won’t bite. I promise.
7. DON'T STOP HER FROM MASTURBATING. Sometimes the quickest most satisfying way for her to cum is with herself. That might mean she gets you off and then masturbates after. It might be a sexy exhibitionist/voyeuristic thing. It might even be that you have to go watch TV in the living room while she has fun with the showerhead. Just think for second: how long can you go without an orgasm without getting a little testy? How long would you stay with someone who doesn't let you cum as much as you want?
8. IF YOU ARE GOING DOWN/FINGERING/ETC. AND SOMETHING IS REALLY WORKING FOR HER, DON'T FUCKING STOP. Seriously, don't stop. Don’t think you need to change it up. A lot of girls who have trouble coming with partners but can cum on their own (especially with toys) need steady, repeated motion in order to get there. Other girls really like the variety. But nothing sucks more than to almost be there and then be thwarted because your partner wants to fix something that’s not broken.
9. This is the hardest one, but, trust me, IF YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY SURE SHE FAKES, CALL HER ON IT. Faking orgasms is the vicious spiral that slowly leads to relationship death. Here’s how it goes: girl is self-conscious to be a difficult cum; girl initially fakes orgasms either to win guy over or because she doesn't think the relationship will last; relationship lasts long enough that girl starts wanting real orgasms; girl doesn't feel like she can demand them now that she lied; girl feels bitter for not getting orgasms; girl feels resentment towards guy for benefiting from a system that encourages her to lie for his pleasure; girl either dumps guy or stops faking; guy feels terrible/angry/bitter for either being dumped or lied to.
10. I lied. This is the hardest one. COMMUNICATE. I know it’s not very sexy to a lot of you, but there a quite a lot of us that get off on communication, especially when that communication is going to give us things that we want. Both you and she might be reluctant to talk about her pleasure. It’s a subject that is treated with an awful mix of taboo and titillation in our society, so it’s hard sometimes to wrap your head around the fact that not all sex talk is ‘dirty talk’ (whether you find wallowing in the dirt to be sexy is ultimately immaterial - it’s still a diversion from the frank talk that needs to happen). So, even if it’s not sexy, talk about her pleasure and what works for her. Ask her to give comment on your technique. Ask her to correct you when you're going down. Ask her if she wants to orgasm. If you're frustrated or neglected, explain why you're feeling frustrated instead of bottling it up. Tell her why you love eating her pussy. Tell her that you want to try something new. The more you open up to her and let her open up to you, the easier it will be for her to cum and the easier it will be for her to ask you to try new things.
If she doesn't know what she wants, don’t make fun. If she wants to experiment, don’t get so lost in fantasy that you don’t hear what she’s saying afterwards. And if she shows the awful scars of the shame that our society has taught her to feel about her own orgasm or lack thereof, be supportive and loving and don’t think about yourself one bit. Those men, those are the keepers.
Tuesday 23 December 2014
How to spot a good Dominant
I came across this article posted by a fellow kinkster. I felt that I'm somewhat some of the ethics which applies to myself as a Dominant. I'm sharing it to you and hope you have an agreement with it as well.
Finding a man is no easy task for submissive ladies. It seems many women do not understand the red flags signalling “Beware.”
- A dominant man will not start off by with, 'Bow down on your knees upon receipt of my message!' There seems to be many complaints from women about this kind of ploy as first introduction, and this is reason alone to 'block n’ move on.' (I would advise ladies to use this tactic often and liberally rather than engage in argument or flame wars…life is too short.). Ignore the Insta-Dom.
- A dominant man will not seem ‘desperate’ for your attention. Getting dates or getting laid is not his problem; he can find women on kink sites, at work, or in the grocery store. He knows women, and women are drawn to him. Many women, kink or vanilla, prefer a man who is take-charge both in the bedroom and in life. If a 'Dom' becomes frantic, anxious, or despairing because you don’t write him back every other hour, chances are he has a hard time with the fairer sex. The good news is desperation is easy to spot.
- A dominant man most often will be successful, a maverick, or at least happy in his chosen profession. If he has had some bad luck in his past, it will be fleeting, for he will strive relentlessly to place his universe back into the order mandatory to his existence. If your suitor languishes in poverty, unemployment for years, or hates his job, most likely his dominance is merely a cover-up to appease his lack of success. Though he may not be the millionaire, look for the man who is happy, confident, unique, and/or successful in his chosen endeavour.
- A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him.
- A dominant man is likely to be damn good in the sack. Most men have their hands full with straight-up vanilla sex. The dominant man has either mastered or has no interest in such elementary play, at least not all the time. Making a woman orgasm many times has left him bereft of sport, so he now seeks a woman who will challenge him on other levels. The dominant guy is going to have a good understanding of the female anatomy, and will persist in finding the keys to your body and mind. He will have done his homework and already experimented in real-time on many lovers. He will be a bit of the Don Juan, if not Don himself; not a womaniser per se, but certainly sexually advanced.
- A dominant man may have all the accoutrement of kink (the whips, chains, and whatnot), but he will not need them to be dominant. A whisper, a word, a look, a swagger, and a touch are the essence of his talent. Confidence is his weapon of choice, not bragging about his dungeon. Those who tout their toys too highly might well be lacking in other departments.
- A dominant man will be very cautious in selecting you because he knows you have great desires, hopes, and dreams, and it is he that has to live up to them. Above all things he will wish to be good for you. He attempts to choose wisely but may at first make many mistakes in his choices as he finds his way.
- A dominant man will make mistakes and have no fear admitting them. The dominant guy knows he is not All Knowing, for he is human. A guy who believes he never makes mistakes or does not admit to them with good cheer is most likely not dominant.
- A dominant man will never send you a cock shot at first greeting and it is highly unlikely that he’ll have one on his profile.
- A dominant man will not beg you for naked photographs. In fact, he won’t beg for anything. He will simply wait till you’re dying to send him your naughty pictures unsolicited and accept them with lordly composure (or a rock hard-on, depending on the photo).
- A dominant man will never lie about being married or already having a girlfriend. If he’s married to vanilla, he’ll simply say so. If he’s dating vanilla, he’ll break up with her before venturing in with another (less he’s doing a poly thing and brings her along, or in an open relationship). The dominant guy is straightforward, will wish to be plain about his true desires and needs, and if he is attached, will be forthcoming with that information. If he’s cheating on his vanilla wife, he will say so. He made his choice and is going for it.
- A dominant man won’t lie about much, though he surely will keep some of his thoughts from you. A Dom who feels swallowing golden showers to be right up your alley may well know telling you straight out might have you running for cover. This is not in itself lying, he’s just taking the appropriate steps first and at the speed he thinks you can absorb them (he may well discard such thoughts as he gets to know you; he will discard his thoughts often). The lying 'dom' will have an agenda that has no bearing on your needs. The real dominant guy wants no part of someone for whom he cannot be good. A man who attempts to get with a woman he cannot handle or vice versa is desperate.
- A dominant man will not be heavy handed in his approach. He will be skilled at drawing you in, opening you up, making you feel at ease or on edge (depending on his tastes). His efforts will seem effortless; even aloof at times. He will grow on you. Capture you. Enlighten you and make things seem clear that may have been once blurry. You will feel better about yourself when communicating with him (even if your desire is to live in debasement!). Only an impostor will try to tear you down in order to raise himself to higher ground. The dominate gets off by watching you soar, not fall.
In essence, taking on a submissive is both invigorating and empowering yet also a humbling experience. He may err constantly, particularly if he is new. Yet he will always, always strive to be better, and though longs and seeks challenge, he will avoid that which he knows he cannot handle, or will in some near future be unable to handle. It may take time but he will understand his own limits as well as his woman’s.
A submissive is a truckload of challenge (ask their ex-vanilla lovers), and so the dominant man needs you like he needs air. He wants your worship not simply for worship sake but because he has gone beyond the call of the norm, ventured into the realm of risk, and passing across the dangerous abyss where footing is treacherous, hopefully breaks into the sunshine of success offering you something glorious. THAT alone is why he seeks your worship; because he has earned it and deserves it.
If a man does not seek risk and challenge in his life, if he wishes worship without venturing his ego, if he does not persist continually toward excellence in handling a woman as he does in many things, he is not a dominant man.
Happy hunting!
~Author Unknown
I'm sure this could be applied to Dommes as well but I didn't want to change the writing but hopefully the point comes home.
Finding a man is no easy task for submissive ladies. It seems many women do not understand the red flags signalling “Beware.”
- A dominant man will not start off by with, 'Bow down on your knees upon receipt of my message!' There seems to be many complaints from women about this kind of ploy as first introduction, and this is reason alone to 'block n’ move on.' (I would advise ladies to use this tactic often and liberally rather than engage in argument or flame wars…life is too short.). Ignore the Insta-Dom.
- A dominant man will not seem ‘desperate’ for your attention. Getting dates or getting laid is not his problem; he can find women on kink sites, at work, or in the grocery store. He knows women, and women are drawn to him. Many women, kink or vanilla, prefer a man who is take-charge both in the bedroom and in life. If a 'Dom' becomes frantic, anxious, or despairing because you don’t write him back every other hour, chances are he has a hard time with the fairer sex. The good news is desperation is easy to spot.
- A dominant man most often will be successful, a maverick, or at least happy in his chosen profession. If he has had some bad luck in his past, it will be fleeting, for he will strive relentlessly to place his universe back into the order mandatory to his existence. If your suitor languishes in poverty, unemployment for years, or hates his job, most likely his dominance is merely a cover-up to appease his lack of success. Though he may not be the millionaire, look for the man who is happy, confident, unique, and/or successful in his chosen endeavour.
- A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him.
- A dominant man is likely to be damn good in the sack. Most men have their hands full with straight-up vanilla sex. The dominant man has either mastered or has no interest in such elementary play, at least not all the time. Making a woman orgasm many times has left him bereft of sport, so he now seeks a woman who will challenge him on other levels. The dominant guy is going to have a good understanding of the female anatomy, and will persist in finding the keys to your body and mind. He will have done his homework and already experimented in real-time on many lovers. He will be a bit of the Don Juan, if not Don himself; not a womaniser per se, but certainly sexually advanced.
- A dominant man may have all the accoutrement of kink (the whips, chains, and whatnot), but he will not need them to be dominant. A whisper, a word, a look, a swagger, and a touch are the essence of his talent. Confidence is his weapon of choice, not bragging about his dungeon. Those who tout their toys too highly might well be lacking in other departments.
- A dominant man will be very cautious in selecting you because he knows you have great desires, hopes, and dreams, and it is he that has to live up to them. Above all things he will wish to be good for you. He attempts to choose wisely but may at first make many mistakes in his choices as he finds his way.
- A dominant man will make mistakes and have no fear admitting them. The dominant guy knows he is not All Knowing, for he is human. A guy who believes he never makes mistakes or does not admit to them with good cheer is most likely not dominant.
- A dominant man will never send you a cock shot at first greeting and it is highly unlikely that he’ll have one on his profile.
- A dominant man will not beg you for naked photographs. In fact, he won’t beg for anything. He will simply wait till you’re dying to send him your naughty pictures unsolicited and accept them with lordly composure (or a rock hard-on, depending on the photo).
- A dominant man will never lie about being married or already having a girlfriend. If he’s married to vanilla, he’ll simply say so. If he’s dating vanilla, he’ll break up with her before venturing in with another (less he’s doing a poly thing and brings her along, or in an open relationship). The dominant guy is straightforward, will wish to be plain about his true desires and needs, and if he is attached, will be forthcoming with that information. If he’s cheating on his vanilla wife, he will say so. He made his choice and is going for it.
- A dominant man won’t lie about much, though he surely will keep some of his thoughts from you. A Dom who feels swallowing golden showers to be right up your alley may well know telling you straight out might have you running for cover. This is not in itself lying, he’s just taking the appropriate steps first and at the speed he thinks you can absorb them (he may well discard such thoughts as he gets to know you; he will discard his thoughts often). The lying 'dom' will have an agenda that has no bearing on your needs. The real dominant guy wants no part of someone for whom he cannot be good. A man who attempts to get with a woman he cannot handle or vice versa is desperate.
- A dominant man will not be heavy handed in his approach. He will be skilled at drawing you in, opening you up, making you feel at ease or on edge (depending on his tastes). His efforts will seem effortless; even aloof at times. He will grow on you. Capture you. Enlighten you and make things seem clear that may have been once blurry. You will feel better about yourself when communicating with him (even if your desire is to live in debasement!). Only an impostor will try to tear you down in order to raise himself to higher ground. The dominate gets off by watching you soar, not fall.
In essence, taking on a submissive is both invigorating and empowering yet also a humbling experience. He may err constantly, particularly if he is new. Yet he will always, always strive to be better, and though longs and seeks challenge, he will avoid that which he knows he cannot handle, or will in some near future be unable to handle. It may take time but he will understand his own limits as well as his woman’s.
A submissive is a truckload of challenge (ask their ex-vanilla lovers), and so the dominant man needs you like he needs air. He wants your worship not simply for worship sake but because he has gone beyond the call of the norm, ventured into the realm of risk, and passing across the dangerous abyss where footing is treacherous, hopefully breaks into the sunshine of success offering you something glorious. THAT alone is why he seeks your worship; because he has earned it and deserves it.
If a man does not seek risk and challenge in his life, if he wishes worship without venturing his ego, if he does not persist continually toward excellence in handling a woman as he does in many things, he is not a dominant man.
Happy hunting!
~Author Unknown
I'm sure this could be applied to Dommes as well but I didn't want to change the writing but hopefully the point comes home.
Sunday 26 October 2014
"How To" Guide for Ladies WHILE Their Man is Dominating Them
Let's get to it:
- Sounds: Moan, whimper, gasp when your man is rough-handling you. Let him hear how turned on he's making you.
- Beg for it. Vocally: "Oh please" Him: "Please what?" You: "Please, I want you inside me/I want you to fuck me." Gasp/whimper out his name. Body language: show him how desperate you for him, move your hands across his back/chest, put your arms around his neck, press your body tight against his. When you feel his erection, glide your hand down the front of his pants and feel him through it, whisper in his ear: "I want thisso badly."
- Don't let him do all the work: When he's on top, wrap your legs around his back to bring him deeper. If you're not restrained by him, keep your hands on him, run it across his back/chest, through his hair (use light fingernails if he likes that sort of thing).
- Shy kisses: I like doing this when my guy is being particularly rough with me. I'll give him gentle kisses, on the mouth, on his cheek, along his neck and collarbone. This feels amazing when he gets more aggressive, it's like the more gentle I try to be with him, the more he'll assert his dominance as if saying "none of that bullshit, I call the shots." So I'll try to kiss him gently, but he'll just grab the back of my head and turn it into an aggressive kiss. Incredibly hot. It's very hard to explain the mentality behind this one, but it's like the more rough he is with me, the more I want to please as if to see if I can get him to be "gentler" when I really want the opposite ;) But it gets me into that nice submissive mindset that I really have no control.
- Let him dominate you while YOU are on top: Me and my guy like to do a lot of different positions during sex. Often times, he'll just say "Get on top" or "Ride me", and will shove me on him. He places his hands on my hips and controls me by thrusting upwards and shoving me down on his cock. Great position to lean over and moan/whimper in his ear while he's thrusting into you. Other times, he'll make me please him by being on top. "Ride me", then he puts his arms behind his head and smirks up at me, while I do all the work. At this point, show him how desperate you are to please him. This is the time when I really like doing the "shy" kisses cause I can lean over him and kiss him gently on the lips/neck.
- Being disobedient...on purpose: Sometimes it's no fun being the perfectly obedient little slave...how else am I going to get punished? ;) So often times I will disobey on purpose...I do this by:
1) In BDSM play: Taking too long to obey an order, outright refusing an order ("Please no"), purposely making a mistake (Him: "You're nothing but a dirty little cum-loving slut whose only good for being used. Repeat it." Me: "I'm nothing but a little cum-loving slut whose only good for being used." Him: "You forgot "dirty" <slap> <spank> "Tryagain."), not refering to him appropriately (i.e. "Master").
2) In "rape" play: Resisting - try to "fight" him off, struggle. Keep your legs closed tight, this will force him to FORCE them open. Use your hands to push him off - this will make him pin your wrists down. While I'm doing this, I like protesting: "No, please no". "I don't want to, please stop." Him: "Do you think I care what you want? Now shut up, you're here to do what I want."
- Blowjobs: Suck him off as if there is nothing else you would rather do. Moan while you have his cock buried in your mouth (yes this may be difficult - but is possible when you're just playing with the tip). Use your hands (assuming they are not tied up) and pull his waist to you as if you are desperate to get more of him into your mouth. Do what your guy likes in terms of body language - i.e. if he likes your eyes lowered, keep them lowered, look up only to coyly ask him if you're satisfying him, or if there's anything else you can do to please him.
- Beg to please him: "Please, I want to suck you off", "Please let me suck you off", "Please, will you cum in my mouth/face/chest/stomach/pussy/ass?"
- Remind him that he controls your orgasms: Again more begging. "Please let/make me cum." "I need to cum so badly, please master." "I need you to make me cum, please I'll do anything." While saying this, show how desperate you are, rub your wetness against his cock or fingers, spread your legs wide for him.
- Apologize when you're disobedient: Beg for forgiveness "I'm sorry master. I didn't mean to. I'll do whatever you want, please forgive me." "I won't disobey/forget/struggle next time. Please don't be angry." "I'm sorry master. Please punish me for disobeying. I will be/do better next time."
- Thank him: Thank him for giving you pleasure/reward. And for letting you please him "Thank you for letting me suck your cock." "Thank you for letting me swallow your cum."
After care. Many of these sessions can be mentally (not only physically) exhausting and draining. So please take care of your partner after - make sure she/he is okay, ask what things they DID NOT like (as well as things they did like), make sure you did not overstep your boundaries. Hug, kiss, hold, cuddle her/him, tell them you love them, etc, etc.
Original article here: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13w5cr/part_three_my_how_to_guide_for_ladies_while_their/
Saturday 25 October 2014
"How-To" Guide for Men on How To Dominate a Woman in Bed - Part Two
Now let's get things started ;)
- Take control of blowjobs. When receiving a blowjob, instead of letting her do all the work, "face fuck" her. Grab the side of her head and push her down onto your cock. For beginners, don't push too far down. For more hardcore individuals, push her down until it reaches the back of her throat. Pull out, look her in the eye and smile while stroking her cheek. Then ram your cock back down her throat. Repeat until satisfied. "You should see how hot/slutty you look with my cock down your throat." For subs, make her do this on her knees. If she closes her eyes or looks down, tug at her hair or grab her chin so she's looking at you: "Eyes open/Look up, I want to see that pretty face of yours as you suck me."
- Facials. "What a pretty face you have...I think I want to see it covered in my cum". "I'm going to cum all over that pretty face of yours." Once you've proceeded to unleash your load all over her face, smear some cum over her lips and get some on your fingers. Make her lick it off. Take a picture.
- Sex toys! This could honestly be a thread in itself. Toys for bondage (i.e. rope, handcuffs, tape, blindfolds), spanking (i.e. whips, paddles - though you can easily substitute with household items, things like rulers, the back of a hair brush, a cooking spoon, a belt, etc), vibrators, anal toys, dildos.
- Take control of her masturbation. Force her to touch herself but make it clear that she is NOT allowed to bring herself to orgasm. Get a remote controlled vibrator. Tie her up and use it on her - control the settings: bring her to the brink, then stop it. "How badly do you want to cum right now?" "Give me a good reason to let you come (let her stammer out some answer)...not good enough."
- Submission. Make her wear a collar. Tell her she can only move on her hands and knees unless you give her permission. Command her in all aspects (i.e. "I want your eyes lowered unless I say otherwise." "Look at me only when I speak to you." "I want you naked for the rest of the night, is that clear? Now strip") Make her confirm your dominance: After each command: "Do you understand me?" "Are you going to obey like a good little slave?" Make her thank you after performing certain tasks, this is especially fun in terms of punishment: "I want you to thank me every time I slap you, do you understand?" Reinforce your punishments "You know why you're being punished don't you?" (Make her give you the reason) "That's right, because you were a disobedient little bitch. Now are you going to do better next time?"
- More intense "rape" play: Shove her face down into a pillow while you take her from behind. Hold her down by firmly pressing your palm to her back, or twist her wrists behind her back. Pull on her hair (again while in doggy style).
- Slap her across the face (this was previously in the Light BDSM but many redditors indicated that it's more medium/heavy): Slap her face with your hand (or cock), alternate with tender cheek cupping between slaps. My SO tends to use slaps as punishment (aside from the usual spanking): slap "Don't disobey me again."slap.
- Choking (again was in light - should be here): Place your hands around her neck and squeeze lightly - never squeeze for too long, and make sure to constantly monitor her to ensure that she can breathe properly!! Please NEVER put direct pressure on the front of the throat (trachea area). Use light pressure with your fingers or thumb along the side. PLEASE PLEASE research breath play if you are interested in this - I cannot stress the importance of safety, there are MAJOR risks engaging in this activity and it is not something that should be experimented with without knowing how to go about it!!
- Make her clean you up after you cum: If you cum on your stomach, make her lick it up. "Make sure you lick it clean like a good slut, don't waste a single drop of cum." Or if you cum in her mouth: "Make sure you swallow every drop of cum I give you." Reward her with a kiss or glide a finger against her lips once she's swallowed: "Good girl." "You're such a cum-loving little whore." Lastly, demand that she cleans your cock after she "made a mess by dripping her pussy juices all over it." (Not a good idea after anal play for obvious reasons - instead, wipe your cock across her breasts/stomach)
Edit: Adding one thing to spice it up even when you're NOT in the bedroom.
- Leave some nice hickies on her body. "I'm going to mark you so you remember who you/this body belongs to."
- If you had sex with her panties on (refer to Part One), after you're done, pull up her panties tight into her crotch and run your fingers down the outline of her slit. Tell her she's going to wear the panties for the rest of the day so she can remember what a dirty/good little slut she's been. Tell her you WILL BE checking that she obeyed when you see her later tonight, and if you found out that she didn't keep them on, you will be punishing her. Make sure you do this when you/she gets home from work. Praise her for being such an obedient girl when you see that she still has them on.
Edit 2: Very, very important point from exilius in terms of after care. Many of these sessions can be mentally (not only physically) exhausting and draining. So please take care of your girl after - make sure she's okay, ask what things she DID NOT like (as well as things she did like), make sure you did not overstep your boundaries. Hug her, kiss her, hold her, cuddle her, tell her you love her, tell her how lucky you feel that she trusts you enough with taking control, etc, etc.
Original article here: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13uqk2/my_howto_guide_for_men_on_how_to_dominate_a_woman/
Friday 24 October 2014
"How-To" Guide for Men on How To Dominate a Woman in Bed - Part One
"Gentle" Dominating
- Push her against the wall/bed/floor/table. Hold down her wrists (above her head, behind her back, by her sides). Lean your weight against her to create the feeling like you are dominating her body. Push your knee between her legs and roughly spread them wide. "Spread wide for me, sweetheart."
- Manhandle her. Put your hands all over her as if you can't get enough. Grab her breasts, squeeze her ass. Worship her. "God I love this hot/tight ass of yours". "This hot/tight ass of yours is all mine tonight." "You have the hottest/tightest little body ever." "Your body was made to be fucked by me."
- Kiss her like you need it to breathe. Grab her chin and pull her mouth to yours, plunge your tongue in her mouth.
- Run your fingers through her hair and pull gently. Tug her hair so that it forces her to look up at you, give her a sexy smirk, and kiss her roughly.
- Grind your hips against her, let her feel your arousal pressed against her. "Can you feel how hard you make me?" "Fuck, you make me so hard." "I can't wait to shove this into that sweet pussy of yours." "God I need/want to be inside of you."
Getting more aggressive...
- Light scratching: Use your fingernails and scratch along her back or lightly dig your nails into her ass.
- Spanking: Slap her ass. Mix it up, don't just spank her a billion times: spank, rub it with the palm of your hand, grip it with your hand, slap it, etc. "I fucking love your tight little ass". "This beautiful ass is all mine...in fact I think I should leave a mark so you'll remember who it belongs to slap".
- Biting: Bite her nipples, alternate with licking and swirling your tongue around the nipple.
- Orgasm Denial: "Do you want to cum?", force her to say yes, then "I want to hear you beg for it." She begs. "Louder". She begs some more. "Good girl..." Proceed to make her come. Or tease her some more... "No I don't think I'll let you just yet..."
- Forced Orgasms: "I want you to cum NOW." "Come for me, baby." Proceed to make her cum after you say these things. After you've made her come, "Have you had enough?...I don't think you have. I want you to come again for me." "I want to feel you soak my fingers/cock/tongue with your delicious juices". "I fucking love making you come, I think I want to do it again..." Make her cum again.
- Have sex with clothes on. Ideal if she's wearing a dress/skirt - hike up her dress and fuck her like that. If she has pants, rip them off roughly. Move her panties aside (but don't take them off!) and screw her like that. "Look how wet you're making your panties...what a dirty little slut you are."
- Make her pleasure you. Force her on her knees and suck you off. "Get on your knees now." "You're going to suck me until I'm satisfied." "Suck me with that talented little mouth of yours."
"Rape"/Light BDSM - So please, please tread carefully with this section, by "rape" I mean CONSENSUAL non-consent, if at any time she says the safe word, STOP IMMEDIATELY. Pay attention to her body language - if it appears like she is not enjoying something or starting to hesitate, STOP IMMEDIATELY, ask her if everything is okay, MAKE SURE THINGS ARE ACTUALLY OKAY. Again, please DO NOT continue if you have any doubts whatsoever. Constantly monitor her and your actions throughout this - remember your boundaries, STICK TO THEM. If you are interested in these activities, find resources and do your research, consult BDSM subreddits. Please, please play safe!!
- Gagging: Gag her with a piece of cloth, my personal favorite is when my boyfriend fucks me with my panties on, then takes them off, and shoves them in my mouth. (Because your mouth will be gagged, you must have a "safe gesture" as a sign to stop if things get too much.)
- Bondage: Buy rope, tape, handcuffs, four-poster bed restraints, etc. OR improvise and substitute with a scarf or belt. Tie up her wrists behind her back (then force her to suck you off), tie her to the bed frame and tease her. Safety point: NEVER leave someone tied up alone in a room (if you need to leave to go to the bathroom or anything like that, make sure you can hear her if she calls out to you. NEVER LEAVE SOMEONE GAGGED AND TIED UP.).
- Degrade her. Call her a dirty little slut/whore/cunt/bitch. "The only thing you're good for is to be fucked/satisfying me." Make her degrade herself "What are you?" "What are you good for?" "You're my slutty little whore. Say it." If she hesitates, punish her with a slap/spank. "Not fast/quick enough. Let's try again. (Repeat the question/your demand)." If you're satisfied, "Good girl" or "That's better." If not satisfied, punish her until she gets it right. Make her call you "Sir" or "Master". Punish her every time she forgets to refer to you as that.
- In contrast to degradation (as pointed out by you guys!): Praise her for satisfying you so well and beingyour "good little girl/slave". Tell her how pleased you are with her behavior and how good she's pleased you. Reward her.
Original article here: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13tu08/my_howto_guide_for_men_on_how_to_dominate_a_woman
Thursday 23 October 2014
The Pussy-Licking-Guide for evolved people in 15 magical steps
#1: Tell her she is beautiful and mean it.
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it’s beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
#2 Stop and appreciate her unique flower
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn’t it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman’s unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.
#3 Women are more verbal: Talk to her beautiful pussy
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you’re petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it.
#4 Lick her outer lips, inner lips and find her clit
Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn’t mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
#5 Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet
Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own and it’s extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it’s dry and that hurts. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
#6 Tease her & approach her pussy slowly
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.
#7 Play with her
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you’ve done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.
#8 Kiss her, gently, then harder
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you’re about to eat must be done gently.
#9 Tongue-fuck her
Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it’s covering. If so, lick it. If you can’t see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it’s presence. But even if you can’t feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.
#10 Work her tip of the iceberg
Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she’s getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth.
Start to suck gently and watch your lady’s face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don’t fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don’t let go. That’s what she’ll be saying too: ‘Don’t stop. Don’t ever stop!’
There’s a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who’s a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.
#11 Finger-fuck her with TWO fingers
But back to your pussy eating session…There’s another thing you can do to intensify your woman’s pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she’s enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, during or after. She’ll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you’re fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can’t get deep enough. Make sure they’re wet so you don’t irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing.
She’ll let you know what to do. If you’re sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you’re giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she’s getting high on this. If there’s any doubt, check her out for symptoms.
#12 Get to know her orgasmic symptoms to become even better
Each woman is unique.
You may have one who’s nipples get hard when she’s excitedor only when she’s having an orgasm.Your girl might flush red orbegin to tremble.
Get to know her symptoms and you’ll be a more sensitive lover.
#13 Don’t let go of her clit when she starts to orgasm – The Multi-Orgasmic Woman
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven’s sakes, don’t let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you’ll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she’s had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to? She’d be yours as long as you wanted her.
#14 The cherry on the cake
Some women like to have their man rub and enter their anal section with their finger while they are being eaten out!
#15 After the orgasmic wave: Keep making love to her quietly
The last advice I have for you is this:
After you’ve made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she’s ever had, don’t leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex.
Original article here: http://mytinysecrets.com/how-to-eat-pussy-a-magical-guide-for-evolved-people/
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it’s beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
#2 Stop and appreciate her unique flower
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn’t it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman’s unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.
#3 Women are more verbal: Talk to her beautiful pussy
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you’re petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it.
#4 Lick her outer lips, inner lips and find her clit
Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn’t mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
#5 Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet
Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own and it’s extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it’s dry and that hurts. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.
#6 Tease her & approach her pussy slowly
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.
#7 Play with her
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you’ve done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.
#8 Kiss her, gently, then harder
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you’re about to eat must be done gently.
#9 Tongue-fuck her
Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out of it’s covering. If so, lick it. If you can’t see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience it’s presence. But even if you can’t feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.
#10 Work her tip of the iceberg
Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she’s getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth.
Start to suck gently and watch your lady’s face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don’t fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don’t let go. That’s what she’ll be saying too: ‘Don’t stop. Don’t ever stop!’
There’s a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well. I know a man who’s a lousy fuck, simply lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.
#11 Finger-fuck her with TWO fingers
But back to your pussy eating session…There’s another thing you can do to intensify your woman’s pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she’s enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, during or after. She’ll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you’re fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and therefore can’t get deep enough. Make sure they’re wet so you don’t irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing.
She’ll let you know what to do. If you’re sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you’re giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she’s getting high on this. If there’s any doubt, check her out for symptoms.
#12 Get to know her orgasmic symptoms to become even better
Each woman is unique.
You may have one who’s nipples get hard when she’s excitedor only when she’s having an orgasm.Your girl might flush red orbegin to tremble.
Get to know her symptoms and you’ll be a more sensitive lover.
#13 Don’t let go of her clit when she starts to orgasm – The Multi-Orgasmic Woman
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven’s sakes, don’t let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you’ll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she’s had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you gave 56 orgasms to? She’d be yours as long as you wanted her.
#14 The cherry on the cake
Some women like to have their man rub and enter their anal section with their finger while they are being eaten out!
#15 After the orgasmic wave: Keep making love to her quietly
The last advice I have for you is this:
After you’ve made her come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she’s ever had, don’t leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex.
Original article here: http://mytinysecrets.com/how-to-eat-pussy-a-magical-guide-for-evolved-people/
Thursday 17 April 2014
Nice time at duty free shop at the airport
Returning back to KL after my flight trip to Singapore, I decided to stop by at the gift shop to window shop for any gifts for my colleagues in the office. At the same time, looking if I can find something nice for myself as well at the duty free shops. A sales lady approached me, asking if I needed any assistance. I decline as to just wanting to browse the shop. While I was browsing, she occasionally introduce some of the items on display, if it was a watch there are brands like Alan Delon, Edifice, Tag Heuer, etc. I continued on my shelves browsing, and walked to the men's belt section. While picking out some of the belts, I accidentally drop a belt on the floor. She bend down to pick up the fallen belt and as she was doing that, I caught a glimpse of her cleavage. At the same moment, she looked up and smiled at me. A normal lady would usually quickly place her hands on her chest to cover, but this lady did something much more sensual, she ran her fingers from wetting her finger with her tongue and ran it downwards from her neck to her cleavage area. Feeling overwhelmed by her kinky gesture, an instant hard-on reaches my crotch. I smiled at her and pretended to be calmed about it. I apologize for dropping the belt and asked for her assistance in choosing the belt length that I want.
"Excuse me, miss. Do you have a longer length belt?", I asked. She took a belt off the shelf and instead of handing it to me, she place it around my waist. Both my hands instantly raised up and promptly let her place the belt around my waist. I felt her hands reaching and fondling my upper butt. Not wanting to attract too much attention or a sudden scream from an unfamiliar sales lady in public, I just let her do what she wanted to do. Besides, I'm feeling a hard-on and sexual erection, I guess, I'm just one of the lucky guys to be feeling this way right now. As she pulls the belt buckle near to my front, she suddenly grab what I can describe as a real hard-on and showing kind of an erection. It was as if she knew I would be having an erection. I was pretty certain that any guy would be having an erection too with the stunt that she just pulled. She then ask me, "Sir, would you like to join me for dinner in 10 minutes time? I'm getting off from work by then." It was an invitation with lots of wild imagination running across my head. I was a little skeptical with her while thinking "Does she do that to every guy that comes into the shop?". Then she spoke "I'm sorry, sir. I don't usually ask this question. Don't think me that I'm that kind of girl asking every guy that walks in here to take me out for dinner or anything like that. I saw you helping the security trip over the snatch thief earlier and I was sort of smitten by your kind and brave gesture." She looks like a nice lady, a little older than me, short hair, slim near to thin body line, but still with good handful breast size. "Just want to have dinner with you. Nothing more" she added. I agreed and we made arrangements to meet up after her shift ends.
When her shift was over, she met me at a nearby cafe where I was waiting drinking. She greeted me and asked me to join her to her car. I questioned her "Aren't we going for a dinner?" She replied, "Yes, but not at the airport. Airport food is too overrated and the price is expensive. I thought of bringing you over to this restaurant nearby my place. It serves the best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I hope that's ok with you?" I nodded with approval and followed her to her car. We had a good time chatting along the way to the restaurant and the food was delicious as she mentioned, best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I then followed her back to her house as during the time of our 'good time chatting', I told her that I was a Computer Technical Engineer. She has a computer at home and has been always giving her problems. So, I in return for a good meal, decided to help her out by checking out her computer problem.
She lead me into her apartment. She apologize for the mess as she didn't have much time cleaning due to her roommate leaving. She showed me her computer and I start my diagnostic work.
As I was fixing what seems to be causing the problem, she appeared in-front of me. I noticed a her legs was bare. As I look up, she was wearing a black netted bodysuit! It was just that and nothing else. I could see her nipples pointed against the bodysuit. I could see her clean shaved pussy. She was looking at me seductively. I was surprised and as usual, my erection is as usual, instantly hard-on. She bend down on her knees and started to move her hands touching my thigh as I was seated in the chair. She runs her fingered nails along my thigh, I leaned back and take in the sensational tingling of her hand movements. She then pushed her body forward, pressing her chest and breast along my thigh. In return, I'm feeling fucking exciting just holding on to the edge of the seat with both my hands pressed tight on the chair handle as some areas near my hard-on crotch were a little ticklish.
She unbuckle my belt and pants, pulling them down to my ankle. She then sniffed my hard-on cock hidden behind my boxers. She rubs her mouth and face over my cock and half tempting bites or grinding her teeth on my cock. She then pulls my boxers revealing my now stand up ovation hard cock. Our eyes met which she looked into my eyes, grabbed my hard cock and kissed it and then puts it in mouth full. Her eyes never left my gaze as I watch her suck and twirl her tongue around my now hard throbbing cock.
My body temperature heats up. My mind boggling with sensation. She fucks my cock with her mouth, salivating my cock till its wet and slimy. She then grabs my cock in one hand and sits on my lap. My cock was pressed down by her wet warm pussy. It was the best feeling ever! She slowly move front and back as if sliding and rubbing my cock's foreskin away revealing my mushroom head. Our lips finally met and we both sucking and tonguing passionately. I had my hands at the back of her waist giving her the much support not to fall off to the back and at the same time pulling her forth towards as she slides back. Her hands were busily unbuttoning my shirt and taking them off. We broke off from our intense kissing to catch our breaths at the part when she was done unbuttoning my shirt and pushing it off my chest. I head front to start kissing her neck and sucking her pointed erected nipples through her netted body suit. She pulls down her bodysuit by the shoulder revealing her bouncy breast as if guiding me to suck on her nipples directly through the flesh instead of through the bodysuit. I had my tongue twirling around her nipples and grinding my teeth gently the nipples. She gasp of a refreshing moan of releasing pleasure as I gushed out some hot breath while getting my breath. "Bite me" she squealed. "Bite my breast, oh please!" She pleaded. I nibbled and sucked her breast flesh area near her nipples. "Umm.. ughhh.. ooohhh.. harder please, harder!" she instructed me. Bite marks were now visible reddish.
I then take the lead, I leaned forward, standing up and carrying her upwards. Moving to the room where her bedroom is. Placed her lying flat at her back. I chuck my pants and boxers off on the floor and took of my shirt which was dangling on my shoulders. My turn to kneel down. Both of us gazed each other for a while. Then I pull her bodysuit up revealing her wet warm and moist pussy. I wet my fingers with my own saliva and finger her clitoris in a circular motion. She tilted her head to the back pressing the bed till her shoulders arched up. Her hands pressed against the bed, her waist lifted up as I fingered her. I placed my lips and tongue against her clitoris, vigorously licking her vagina lips. she gushed out another moan. This time louder than previous ones. I continued to tongue her vaginal glans. She is squirming her body and moaning with pleasure. Her hands now grabbing and stroking my hair. I lifted my hands to grab and hold her hands by the fingers. I breath occasionally by pausing licks on her clitoris.
She thug my hand up, as if letting me know that she wants me to fuck her. I carried her and pushed her deeper on the bed space. I salivated my cock with my own saliva while she lifted her legs wide and with both her hands spreading her pussy. I gently teased her with my mushroom head against her clitoral glans. She gasp and moan "Please put it in, oh please fuck me". I gently pushed my cock into her vaginal opening and we both gasp out a sigh of air as the feeling was overwhelming with pleasure that's totally indescribable. I pushed my cock deeper in, and slowly pull it half way out and then begin the process of pumping and fucking her. She was in a trance. She was moaning "oh my gosh! oh my gosh!" multiple times as I was pounding her as I lifted her legs up and drilling her deeply. My legs were in a kneeling position. Her hands was clasping on my thigh as if pulling my body to thrust in deeper each time I pound her. After a few pounds, she sensed that my body is tiring; she lifts up her upper body as to guide me to lie down, so that she can ride me.
I lied down, my legs straighten and pulls the nearby pillow and placed it behind my head. Her turn to kneel and sit on me. She was careful at doing this as she didn't want my cock to slide out of her inside. Hence, starts her riding pace. I placed my hand on her waist as to pull her body towards me as she lifts her body up. I then graze my fingers and nails on her chest as if clawing her breast and nipples. She moans intensively. The bed starts to give off creaking noises. I can feel that she is feeling a little tired from riding me as her riding motion slows down. I gesture her to straddle down while she does that, I pulls her near and our lips met again, kissing passionately. Both our body are getting sweats even with the cool air conditioning in residing in the room. I instructed her to get on all fours near the edge of the bed while I came out of the bed in a standing position and readied myself to doggy her standing. She spreads her knees wider and lower so that I can guide my still harden cock into her vaginal hole from behind. She tilts her head forward as if like a bowing stance. I guided my cock into her and again, she gave a small squeal and moan as I insert my cock in. I pound her dogging stand while holding her waist. She tried to push her butt towards me but somehow, the synchronization of our motion doesn't seem to match, hence the flow was not good. I sensed that I should take the lead in pounding and fucking her nicely. I pull her arms up by her wrist and start the fucking and pounding motion again. This time, it was a deep push in and a less pull out making it a faster fucking deeply motion. She gasp and moan more and more loudly. She starts chanting "harder, oh harder, harder, harder, harder, oh yes please!". It felt good hearing her moan and chanting like that. I grunt as I increased my pounding pace and the thrust became louder as my crotch and thigh slaps against her butt making a whopping sound.
"Mmmm.. yes yes, I'm cumming. Oh gosh! I'm cumming" she starts to scream with almost like an intense trance as I can feel her body shivering even when I am pounding her. "Don't stop, please don't stop.. I can feel it, I'm cumming.. oh yes!" as she screams these words beneath her loud moan. At each grunt, as my hips were almost at the strenuous stage, I too can feel that my cock is pumping more blood and is about to shoot of my load. I too grunted "Ughh.. I'm cumming too.. I can feel it, its cumming" under my breath. She pleaded "cum inside me, please.. I want your cum inside me, please... let's cum together!". Those words was like a magic spell for us. At almost after few seconds, maybe 5 or 8 seconds, she let out a long gasp of air as if a balloon air was released. At the same time, I too felt an electric tingling feeling on my cock and a gushing of uncontrollable pressure leaving my body. We both came at the same time.
Both our bodies sort of drained in energy. Her body flopped back on bed panting. Same with me. My legs gave way as if out of energy and collapse into bed lying next beside her. Both of us were catching out breath as if we just dashed across the finish line in World's New 100m record of 9.58 seconds. Our intense sexual pleasure was actually one hour and 10 minutes. I turned to her as she turned towards me. We both smiled and kissed gently. We cuddled in a spooning position as I back hug her and we both went to sleep.
"Excuse me, miss. Do you have a longer length belt?", I asked. She took a belt off the shelf and instead of handing it to me, she place it around my waist. Both my hands instantly raised up and promptly let her place the belt around my waist. I felt her hands reaching and fondling my upper butt. Not wanting to attract too much attention or a sudden scream from an unfamiliar sales lady in public, I just let her do what she wanted to do. Besides, I'm feeling a hard-on and sexual erection, I guess, I'm just one of the lucky guys to be feeling this way right now. As she pulls the belt buckle near to my front, she suddenly grab what I can describe as a real hard-on and showing kind of an erection. It was as if she knew I would be having an erection. I was pretty certain that any guy would be having an erection too with the stunt that she just pulled. She then ask me, "Sir, would you like to join me for dinner in 10 minutes time? I'm getting off from work by then." It was an invitation with lots of wild imagination running across my head. I was a little skeptical with her while thinking "Does she do that to every guy that comes into the shop?". Then she spoke "I'm sorry, sir. I don't usually ask this question. Don't think me that I'm that kind of girl asking every guy that walks in here to take me out for dinner or anything like that. I saw you helping the security trip over the snatch thief earlier and I was sort of smitten by your kind and brave gesture." She looks like a nice lady, a little older than me, short hair, slim near to thin body line, but still with good handful breast size. "Just want to have dinner with you. Nothing more" she added. I agreed and we made arrangements to meet up after her shift ends.
When her shift was over, she met me at a nearby cafe where I was waiting drinking. She greeted me and asked me to join her to her car. I questioned her "Aren't we going for a dinner?" She replied, "Yes, but not at the airport. Airport food is too overrated and the price is expensive. I thought of bringing you over to this restaurant nearby my place. It serves the best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I hope that's ok with you?" I nodded with approval and followed her to her car. We had a good time chatting along the way to the restaurant and the food was delicious as she mentioned, best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I then followed her back to her house as during the time of our 'good time chatting', I told her that I was a Computer Technical Engineer. She has a computer at home and has been always giving her problems. So, I in return for a good meal, decided to help her out by checking out her computer problem.
She lead me into her apartment. She apologize for the mess as she didn't have much time cleaning due to her roommate leaving. She showed me her computer and I start my diagnostic work.
As I was fixing what seems to be causing the problem, she appeared in-front of me. I noticed a her legs was bare. As I look up, she was wearing a black netted bodysuit! It was just that and nothing else. I could see her nipples pointed against the bodysuit. I could see her clean shaved pussy. She was looking at me seductively. I was surprised and as usual, my erection is as usual, instantly hard-on. She bend down on her knees and started to move her hands touching my thigh as I was seated in the chair. She runs her fingered nails along my thigh, I leaned back and take in the sensational tingling of her hand movements. She then pushed her body forward, pressing her chest and breast along my thigh. In return, I'm feeling fucking exciting just holding on to the edge of the seat with both my hands pressed tight on the chair handle as some areas near my hard-on crotch were a little ticklish.
She unbuckle my belt and pants, pulling them down to my ankle. She then sniffed my hard-on cock hidden behind my boxers. She rubs her mouth and face over my cock and half tempting bites or grinding her teeth on my cock. She then pulls my boxers revealing my now stand up ovation hard cock. Our eyes met which she looked into my eyes, grabbed my hard cock and kissed it and then puts it in mouth full. Her eyes never left my gaze as I watch her suck and twirl her tongue around my now hard throbbing cock.
My body temperature heats up. My mind boggling with sensation. She fucks my cock with her mouth, salivating my cock till its wet and slimy. She then grabs my cock in one hand and sits on my lap. My cock was pressed down by her wet warm pussy. It was the best feeling ever! She slowly move front and back as if sliding and rubbing my cock's foreskin away revealing my mushroom head. Our lips finally met and we both sucking and tonguing passionately. I had my hands at the back of her waist giving her the much support not to fall off to the back and at the same time pulling her forth towards as she slides back. Her hands were busily unbuttoning my shirt and taking them off. We broke off from our intense kissing to catch our breaths at the part when she was done unbuttoning my shirt and pushing it off my chest. I head front to start kissing her neck and sucking her pointed erected nipples through her netted body suit. She pulls down her bodysuit by the shoulder revealing her bouncy breast as if guiding me to suck on her nipples directly through the flesh instead of through the bodysuit. I had my tongue twirling around her nipples and grinding my teeth gently the nipples. She gasp of a refreshing moan of releasing pleasure as I gushed out some hot breath while getting my breath. "Bite me" she squealed. "Bite my breast, oh please!" She pleaded. I nibbled and sucked her breast flesh area near her nipples. "Umm.. ughhh.. ooohhh.. harder please, harder!" she instructed me. Bite marks were now visible reddish.
I then take the lead, I leaned forward, standing up and carrying her upwards. Moving to the room where her bedroom is. Placed her lying flat at her back. I chuck my pants and boxers off on the floor and took of my shirt which was dangling on my shoulders. My turn to kneel down. Both of us gazed each other for a while. Then I pull her bodysuit up revealing her wet warm and moist pussy. I wet my fingers with my own saliva and finger her clitoris in a circular motion. She tilted her head to the back pressing the bed till her shoulders arched up. Her hands pressed against the bed, her waist lifted up as I fingered her. I placed my lips and tongue against her clitoris, vigorously licking her vagina lips. she gushed out another moan. This time louder than previous ones. I continued to tongue her vaginal glans. She is squirming her body and moaning with pleasure. Her hands now grabbing and stroking my hair. I lifted my hands to grab and hold her hands by the fingers. I breath occasionally by pausing licks on her clitoris.
She thug my hand up, as if letting me know that she wants me to fuck her. I carried her and pushed her deeper on the bed space. I salivated my cock with my own saliva while she lifted her legs wide and with both her hands spreading her pussy. I gently teased her with my mushroom head against her clitoral glans. She gasp and moan "Please put it in, oh please fuck me". I gently pushed my cock into her vaginal opening and we both gasp out a sigh of air as the feeling was overwhelming with pleasure that's totally indescribable. I pushed my cock deeper in, and slowly pull it half way out and then begin the process of pumping and fucking her. She was in a trance. She was moaning "oh my gosh! oh my gosh!" multiple times as I was pounding her as I lifted her legs up and drilling her deeply. My legs were in a kneeling position. Her hands was clasping on my thigh as if pulling my body to thrust in deeper each time I pound her. After a few pounds, she sensed that my body is tiring; she lifts up her upper body as to guide me to lie down, so that she can ride me.
I lied down, my legs straighten and pulls the nearby pillow and placed it behind my head. Her turn to kneel and sit on me. She was careful at doing this as she didn't want my cock to slide out of her inside. Hence, starts her riding pace. I placed my hand on her waist as to pull her body towards me as she lifts her body up. I then graze my fingers and nails on her chest as if clawing her breast and nipples. She moans intensively. The bed starts to give off creaking noises. I can feel that she is feeling a little tired from riding me as her riding motion slows down. I gesture her to straddle down while she does that, I pulls her near and our lips met again, kissing passionately. Both our body are getting sweats even with the cool air conditioning in residing in the room. I instructed her to get on all fours near the edge of the bed while I came out of the bed in a standing position and readied myself to doggy her standing. She spreads her knees wider and lower so that I can guide my still harden cock into her vaginal hole from behind. She tilts her head forward as if like a bowing stance. I guided my cock into her and again, she gave a small squeal and moan as I insert my cock in. I pound her dogging stand while holding her waist. She tried to push her butt towards me but somehow, the synchronization of our motion doesn't seem to match, hence the flow was not good. I sensed that I should take the lead in pounding and fucking her nicely. I pull her arms up by her wrist and start the fucking and pounding motion again. This time, it was a deep push in and a less pull out making it a faster fucking deeply motion. She gasp and moan more and more loudly. She starts chanting "harder, oh harder, harder, harder, harder, oh yes please!". It felt good hearing her moan and chanting like that. I grunt as I increased my pounding pace and the thrust became louder as my crotch and thigh slaps against her butt making a whopping sound.
"Mmmm.. yes yes, I'm cumming. Oh gosh! I'm cumming" she starts to scream with almost like an intense trance as I can feel her body shivering even when I am pounding her. "Don't stop, please don't stop.. I can feel it, I'm cumming.. oh yes!" as she screams these words beneath her loud moan. At each grunt, as my hips were almost at the strenuous stage, I too can feel that my cock is pumping more blood and is about to shoot of my load. I too grunted "Ughh.. I'm cumming too.. I can feel it, its cumming" under my breath. She pleaded "cum inside me, please.. I want your cum inside me, please... let's cum together!". Those words was like a magic spell for us. At almost after few seconds, maybe 5 or 8 seconds, she let out a long gasp of air as if a balloon air was released. At the same time, I too felt an electric tingling feeling on my cock and a gushing of uncontrollable pressure leaving my body. We both came at the same time.
Both our bodies sort of drained in energy. Her body flopped back on bed panting. Same with me. My legs gave way as if out of energy and collapse into bed lying next beside her. Both of us were catching out breath as if we just dashed across the finish line in World's New 100m record of 9.58 seconds. Our intense sexual pleasure was actually one hour and 10 minutes. I turned to her as she turned towards me. We both smiled and kissed gently. We cuddled in a spooning position as I back hug her and we both went to sleep.
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