"How-To" Guide for Men on How To Dominate a Woman in Bed - Part Two

Now let's get things started ;)

• Take control of blowjobs. When receiving a blowjob, instead of letting her do all the work, "face fuck" her. Grab the side of her head and push her down onto your cock. For beginners, don't push too far down. For more hardcore individuals, push her down until it reaches the back of her throat. Pull out, look her in the eye and smile while stroking her cheek. Then ram your cock back down her throat. Repeat until satisfied. "You should see how hot/slutty you look with my cock down your throat." For subs, make her do this on her knees. If she closes her eyes or looks down, tug at her hair or grab her chin so she's looking at you: "Eyes open/Look up, I want to see that pretty face of yours as you suck me."
• Facials. "What a pretty face you have...I think I want to see it covered in my cum". "I'm going to cum all over that pretty face of yours." Once you've proceeded to unleash your load all over her face, smear some cum over her lips and get some on your fingers. Make her lick it off. Take a picture.
• Sex toys! This could honestly be a thread in itself. Toys for bondage (i.e. rope, handcuffs, tape, blindfolds), spanking (i.e. whips, paddles - though you can easily substitute with household items, things like rulers, the back of a hair brush, a cooking spoon, a belt, etc), vibrators, anal toys, dildos.
• Take control of her masturbation. Force her to touch herself but make it clear that she is NOT allowed to bring herself to orgasm. Get a remote controlled vibrator. Tie her up and use it on her - control the settings: bring her to the brink, then stop it. "How badly do you want to cum right now?" "Give me a good reason to let you come (let her stammer out some answer)...not good enough."
• Submission. Make her wear a collar. Tell her she can only move on her hands and knees unless you give her permission. Command her in all aspects (i.e. "I want your eyes lowered unless I say otherwise." "Look at me only when I speak to you." "I want you naked for the rest of the night, is that clear? Now strip") Make her confirm your dominance: After each command: "Do you understand me?" "Are you going to obey like a good little slave?" Make her thank you after performing certain tasks, this is especially fun in terms of punishment: "I want you to thank me every time I slap you, do you understand?" Reinforce your punishments "You know why you're being punished don't you?" (Make her give you the reason) "That's right, because you were a disobedient little bitch. Now are you going to do better next time?"
• More intense "rape" play: Shove her face down into a pillow while you take her from behind. Hold her down by firmly pressing your palm to her back, or twist her wrists behind her back. Pull on her hair (again while in doggy style).
• Slap her across the face (this was previously in the Light BDSM but many redditors indicated that it's more medium/heavy): Slap her face with your hand (or cock), alternate with tender cheek cupping between slaps. My SO tends to use slaps as punishment (aside from the usual spanking): slap "Don't disobey me again."slap.
• Choking (again was in light - should be here): Place your hands around her neck and squeeze lightly - never squeeze for too long, and make sure to constantly monitor her to ensure that she can breathe properly!! Please NEVER put direct pressure on the front of the throat (trachea area). Use light pressure with your fingers or thumb along the side. PLEASE PLEASE research breath play if you are interested in this - I cannot stress the importance of safety, there are MAJOR risks engaging in this activity and it is not something that should be experimented with without knowing how to go about it!!
• Make her clean you up after you cum: If you cum on your stomach, make her lick it up. "Make sure you lick it clean like a good slut, don't waste a single drop of cum." Or if you cum in her mouth: "Make sure you swallow every drop of cum I give you." Reward her with a kiss or glide a finger against her lips once she's swallowed: "Good girl." "You're such a cum-loving little whore." Lastly, demand that she cleans your cock after she "made a mess by dripping her pussy juices all over it." (Not a good idea after anal play for obvious reasons - instead, wipe your cock across her breasts/stomach)

Edit: Adding one thing to spice it up even when you're NOT in the bedroom.

• Leave some nice hickies on her body. "I'm going to mark you so you remember who you/this body belongs to."
• If you had sex with her panties on (refer to Part One), after you're done, pull up her panties tight into her crotch and run your fingers down the outline of her slit. Tell her she's going to wear the panties for the rest of the day so she can remember what a dirty/good little slut she's been. Tell her you WILL BE checking that she obeyed when you see her later tonight, and if you found out that she didn't keep them on, you will be punishing her. Make sure you do this when you/she gets home from work. Praise her for being such an obedient girl when you see that she still has them on.

Edit 2: Very, very important point from exilius in terms of after care. Many of these sessions can be mentally (not only physically) exhausting and draining. So please take care of your girl after - make sure she's okay, ask what things she DID NOT like (as well as things she did like), make sure you did not overstep your boundaries. Hug her, kiss her, hold her, cuddle her, tell her you love her, tell her how lucky you feel that she trusts you enough with taking control, etc, etc.

Original article here: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13uqk2/my_howto_guide_for_men_on_how_to_dominate_a_woman/

The Abandon House

Ms. C and I met online on a social network site. We have been communicating online via messenger and after a couple of flirtatious to and fro, we began role-playing in a fetish fantasy such as I being dominant instructing her to do certain things to please me as my naughty little girl. After a few exciting and arousing role-plays, we finally decided to meet up to see each other and hope for a promising real-life role-play.

We both live quite a distance from each other but on that day, we’re already made our minds to meet even if it’s a short while. I drove to the meeting place which was about less than an hour’s drive. Before we met, I've specifically instructed Ms. C to wear only a short mini dress with nothing else. No bra and panty are allowed. If she doesn't follow that rule, then our meeting will be off. She obediently followed my instructions over the messenger before our meet up.

It was 10pm, I reached the parking spot near the coffee bar where we’re suppose to meet up for a drink. Since it was a weekend, the parking lots were full and I had to park quite a distance from where the coffee bar was. I stayed seated in the parked car and waited for her to come. She told me she was walking here since her house is nearby. After a while, I got a message from her saying that she drove her car and I noticed a car just turned into the lane and parked right behind me. I guessed it was her and got out of my car and walked towards the recently parked car.  

She got out of the car and I instantly had a hard-on as I noticed that she wore exactly what I ordered her to wear. She was wearing a brown polka dot mini dress with a long necklace. We were both smiling as we met. We greeted each other and introduced our names. The area where we parked our car was in a not so lighted up area and the atmosphere was calm and quiet. I stepped forward closer to her and I reached out my hands to touch her breast. My hard-on got harder once I noticed that she was really following my instructions not to wear anything. I noticed her perky nipples poking the dress. I moved my other hand towards her lower body and lifted up her skirt and touched her pussy. It was wet and as instructed, not wearing a panty under the dress as well. I praised her for being a good little girl as she is for following my instructions. I lean forward to kiss her and she responded by sticking out her tongue and stretching her neck forward to receive my kiss.

We chat a little bit just standing closely face to face, talking about our normal livelihood. We interact with each other a little bit like pinching her nipples and a fingering her wet pussy while she grab my hard-on thru my shorts. We stopped immediately when there was people walking pass us.

We then decided to go somewhere else more private to get more intimate with each other. She jumped into my car and we drove off looking for a darker and lonely nightspot. I found an abandon secluded house nearby. Once parked the car a little further away from the abandon house, we head towards it hand in hand running towards into the house as quickly as possible not wanting to be spotted by passersby.

Once we’re inside the house, I pushed her against the wall and started to roughly kiss her. I then pull her dress down strip from her body. She was instantly naked only with her necklace. I took her necklace off and at the same time, unbuckle and removed my belt from my short pants. I tied around her neck with the belt. It’s almost like collaring her with the belt. Pulling the belt forcefully, she had to kneel down. I grabbed her head and pulled her by her hair. She immediately unzips my shorts and starts to mouth my hard cock. I fucked her mouth vigorously as if almost choking her. She didn't scream or shout me to stopped, so I carried on.

The abandon house had a broken down table and a dirty old cushion couch. After awhile, I dragged her to lie down on top of the table. I tighten the collar around her neck, the table was a good height at just around me hips. I ordered her to continue to suck my cock. She obediently did. I then now start slapping her breast and ordered her to open her legs. I finger fuck her with occasionally slapping her pussy. I called her a slut and whore fucking bitch. She responded with like an obedient little girl agreeing to every word I say and pleaded me to fuck her. I told her that in order for me to fuck her; she will need to make me cum first. She began to be more diligent in her sucking of my cock and moans more as I love to hear her horny moans. Almost a few minutes later, I could feel that my cock is going to explode. I pushed her mouth away and ordered her to go on all fours on the dirty couch. “I’m going to fuck you like a slut you are.” I said. “Get on all fours by the couch. I’m going to doggy fuck you.  She immediately goes on all fours like an obedient pet and spread her legs wide for me to fit my hard cock in her. She kept begging me “Oh master please, fuck me daddy, doggy fuck me, I’m so wet. I want to be fucked by your hard cock, sir!”

I grabbed back the belt that was collaring her neck, pulled her closer to me while I fuck her hot wet pussy with my hard cock. I penetrate and shove my cock immediately. No gentle penetration. It was a hard rough fucking session. I pulled the belt as I thrust my cock fucking her. I then ordered her to put both her hands/arms at the back of her. I then quickly grab both her wrist. I was fucking her in a doggy position but with both her hands to her back and a belt collaring her neck. Her breast was shaking back and front vigorously. She was moaning quite loudly as it echoes in the room. I quickly took a handkerchief out from my pocket and stuff her mouth with it, muffling her moaning noise. I kept fucking her until I could felt like a gushing wet of cum filling up my cock. She was getting ready to orgasm, at the same time I felt that I’m going to shoot my load as well. I pushed her around on to the couch and start shooting my load of cum on her face. She too orgasm by fingering pussy until it was squirting on the floor.

Both of us leaned on the dirty cushion couch sitting and resting, she lean forward and gave my cock a nice clean sucking as if cleaning it. I leaned towards her, grabbed her head by her hair and kissed her. We got dressed and sneakily run out of the abandon house and back to the car. I gave her lift back to her parked car. Kissed her and look forward to another exciting adventure the next time we meet up again.