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Saturday, 2 January 2021
A Beginner's Introduction to Dominance and Submission
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Monday, 20 April 2015
Dominants Who Give Oral Are Still Dominant
Never has a topic jumped out at me before like this one. For the third time in a week, I saw a discussion thread online asking kinksters their opinions on whether a Dominant giving oral sex still made them Dominant.
Before my eyes rolled so hard they nearly fell out of my head, and before I heaved a huge sigh of exasperation, I clenched my jaw at whoever keeps propagating this bullshit – not the person asking the question (poor thing, they were worried they were somehow less Dominant) but at whoever let this idea out into the world. (It’s funny, I’m not one to see things in black or white. Pardon the phrase, but nearly everything is a shade of gray to me. In my mind there are often exceptions to every rule, reasons for things we might not understand, and ways of doing things that I don’t understand but accept. But something about this one just pisses me off.)
Dominants are Still In Control Even When They’re Going Down
Regardless of how John Brownstone chooses to give me an orgasm – hand, cock, toy, or tongue – my orgasms still belong to him. I have to beg for permission during or receive permission before he begins before I can orgasm. I swear to gawd, one of his greatest pleasures in life is hearing my voice raise three octaves as I screech out a “Please, Daddy, can I cum” in a whisper without coming completely unglued or having an orgasm without permission. (Try getting eaten out with tongue/teeth on your clit, knowing you can’t cum without permission, and two kids sleeping down the hallway – and then tell me he’s not Dominant.)
He’s my Dominant and my Daddy. He gives me pleasure or he takes pleasure. I receive it and I give it, but I never just take it. That’s how we roll, y’all. So when he’s giving me oral sex, he’s still fully in control – even when my thighs are clamped so hard around his head that he probably can’t see, hear, or breathe.
Dominants Give as Much as or More than They Take
Anyone who tries to tell you that Dominants only take and don’t give anything to their submissives is an abusive asshole and needs to be called out as such before being avoided like the plague. The reason Dominance and submission works is because both parties are receiving some sort of pleasure. Even if the pleasure for the submissive is about being used, it is still pleasure. A “Dominant” (notice the quotes?) who refuses to contemplate giving pleasure to their submissive – or making sure they receive it at some point – is just another wannabe in my mind. An arrogant asshole.
Now, don’t get me wrong. Not every D/s partnership is a love match. And yes, some people play really, really hard. But even then, the submissive should receive some pleasure from the scene – either from the play itself, the pain (assuming that’s part of it), the mindfuck, or just knowing they’re serving their Dominant.
If a Dominant refuses to give something like oral because they perceive giving pleasure to their submissive a weakness, that submissive needs to kick them to the curb and go find a real Dominant.
Dominance is about more than getting your rocks off with a submissive. Both partners should find their own pleasure in the partnership, the relationship, and/or the play. If you’re not into oral for your own reasons, that’s one thing. But if you’re told you “shouldn’t” expect oral from a Dominant (or on the flipside, as a Dominant you “shouldn’t” give oral to your submissive) think again and know that advice is bullshit.
No, not every moment in a D/s relationship is about pleasure. I’m pretty sure the good Doms really hate punishing their submissives, and I know submissives really don’t like being told no. But in this one thing, oral sex, a Dominant who gives it is still just as Dominant as they are when they receive it.
Taken from http://kaylalords.com
Before my eyes rolled so hard they nearly fell out of my head, and before I heaved a huge sigh of exasperation, I clenched my jaw at whoever keeps propagating this bullshit – not the person asking the question (poor thing, they were worried they were somehow less Dominant) but at whoever let this idea out into the world. (It’s funny, I’m not one to see things in black or white. Pardon the phrase, but nearly everything is a shade of gray to me. In my mind there are often exceptions to every rule, reasons for things we might not understand, and ways of doing things that I don’t understand but accept. But something about this one just pisses me off.)
Dominants are Still In Control Even When They’re Going Down
Regardless of how John Brownstone chooses to give me an orgasm – hand, cock, toy, or tongue – my orgasms still belong to him. I have to beg for permission during or receive permission before he begins before I can orgasm. I swear to gawd, one of his greatest pleasures in life is hearing my voice raise three octaves as I screech out a “Please, Daddy, can I cum” in a whisper without coming completely unglued or having an orgasm without permission. (Try getting eaten out with tongue/teeth on your clit, knowing you can’t cum without permission, and two kids sleeping down the hallway – and then tell me he’s not Dominant.)
He’s my Dominant and my Daddy. He gives me pleasure or he takes pleasure. I receive it and I give it, but I never just take it. That’s how we roll, y’all. So when he’s giving me oral sex, he’s still fully in control – even when my thighs are clamped so hard around his head that he probably can’t see, hear, or breathe.
Dominants Give as Much as or More than They Take
Anyone who tries to tell you that Dominants only take and don’t give anything to their submissives is an abusive asshole and needs to be called out as such before being avoided like the plague. The reason Dominance and submission works is because both parties are receiving some sort of pleasure. Even if the pleasure for the submissive is about being used, it is still pleasure. A “Dominant” (notice the quotes?) who refuses to contemplate giving pleasure to their submissive – or making sure they receive it at some point – is just another wannabe in my mind. An arrogant asshole.
Now, don’t get me wrong. Not every D/s partnership is a love match. And yes, some people play really, really hard. But even then, the submissive should receive some pleasure from the scene – either from the play itself, the pain (assuming that’s part of it), the mindfuck, or just knowing they’re serving their Dominant.
If a Dominant refuses to give something like oral because they perceive giving pleasure to their submissive a weakness, that submissive needs to kick them to the curb and go find a real Dominant.
Dominance is about more than getting your rocks off with a submissive. Both partners should find their own pleasure in the partnership, the relationship, and/or the play. If you’re not into oral for your own reasons, that’s one thing. But if you’re told you “shouldn’t” expect oral from a Dominant (or on the flipside, as a Dominant you “shouldn’t” give oral to your submissive) think again and know that advice is bullshit.
No, not every moment in a D/s relationship is about pleasure. I’m pretty sure the good Doms really hate punishing their submissives, and I know submissives really don’t like being told no. But in this one thing, oral sex, a Dominant who gives it is still just as Dominant as they are when they receive it.
Taken from http://kaylalords.com
Top 10 Signs He’s an Asshole, Not a Dominant
Top 10 Signs He’s an Asshole, Not a Dominant
For all the single submissives out there looking for love, I get it. No really, I do. You yearn to submit to a Dominant, and it seems like finding the right one is nearly impossible. Many of you will take what you can get because you don’t think you deserve better. Others don’t seem to know the difference between genuine affection or interest and the assholes who are waiting in wings for you.
I often go on lengthy diatribes about what’s okay and what isn’t between a Dominant and a submissive. I also frequently go on rants because people are made to feel that normal, healthy desires or sexual activities can’t have a place in BDSM. For anyone who doesn’t have the time for all that, here’s a handy-dandy list of what separates the Dominants from the assholes so you’ll know one when you find them.
Note: This is directed at male Dominants for two reasons. One, that’s my main experience, and two, I’ve never heard of Dommes pulling this kind of crap. If they do, share with me in the comments below so everyone can be aware.
He demands you call him Sir or Master from the moment you meet. You’re a submissive, not his submissive. I advocate being respectful until he gives you a reason not to be, but anyone who demands a title before it’s earned needs to be ignored.
He starts out an introduction with a dick pic. No Dominant is going to send you this without some sort of agreement between the two of you. It’s just not going to happen.
He sends you unsolicited instructions of how to please him or orders to obey. Did you talk about this list? Was there communication and consent? If not, this is just another poser.
He ignores your hard limits. Don’t just walk away from this loser, fucking run. Ignoring your clearly identified and communicated limits is the sign of an asshole and an abuser. A Dominant will push your limits, sure, but not without first talking to you – a lot.
He disregards your safe word. Yes, some Dominants out there claim not to play with a safe word. I find that dicey but won’t pass too much judgment. If you use a safe word, though, it should be respected. Ignoring this is just more abuse.
He lies. I know some people will say that everyone lies. White lies to save face or feelings. Most Dominants I know are honest to a fault. Think about it. How can you communicate openly and honestly if you’ll lie about things – big or small? John Brownstone doesn’t lie; he simply refrains from speaking until the time is right to tell the truth. I can respect that.
He thinks more about his pleasure than your own. Caveat: if you’ve negotiated a relationship where this is acceptable to both of you (yes, that’s possible), that’s okay. Not my kink, but okay. I’m referring to the jerk who gets off and then ignores you or doesn’t listen when you tell him your preferences.
He makes you feel bad about yourself. I’m not talking about a humiliation fetish in the middle of a scene or even as part of an on-going relationship. I’m talking about the soul-sucking, self-esteem shattering bullshit that makes you feel less than human and unworthy of love and affection. D/s should build both people up, not tear you down.
He separates you from family and friends. Okay, let’s be honest here. Some people are just bad for us. They make us feel bad and doubt our self worth. I don’t mean those people. I’m talking about loving relationships with friends and family. A good Dominant wants a happy, healthy submissive – and isolating you from people who care about you won’t achieve that. Frankly, it will simply show that he’s selfish and, most likely, insecure.
He tells you that you’re not a “real” submissive because you have your own opinions. In a D/s relationship, how you express those opinions will vary based on your consensual, negotiated agreement but you should always have your own opinions. The other flavor that goes with this one is that you’re not a real submissive because you’re too independent, aggressive, or (best of all) not willing to do what you’re told by someone you just met who claims to be a Dominant. (Insert big, fat eyeroll.)
Assuming you’re online when these things occur (and it usually does), I also think you can be proactive in dealing with these men. First of all, you are under no obligation to reply to a message that includes anything you find offensive. If you tell them to stop or to leave you alone, you can and should ignore them. You don’t have to continue following or being “friends” with these people online. The unfollow, unfriend, and block features are all there for a reason. Use them. If it crosses over to harassment, you should report them to whichever site you’re on.
Once you’re in a relationship, you must remember that you’re free to end it. You are allowed to withdraw your consent. If he doesn’t listen, he’s no longer acting as a Dominant. Now he’s an abuser. And he should be treated as such – even if that means getting the law involved. Your physical, emotional, and mental well-being truly are that important.
If someone does a couple of the things on this list, they might (but I doubt it) simply be too new to understand how D/s really works. I’d give them the benefit of the doubt, but I’d also move on and not engage with them. Let them learn the hard way – or end up alone, either way works for me. When you come across the guy who does most of these things, he’s not a Dominant. He’s an asshole. Don’t waste your time or breath on him.
You are worth more than that, and you need to remember it and believe it.
Taken from http://kaylalords.com
For all the single submissives out there looking for love, I get it. No really, I do. You yearn to submit to a Dominant, and it seems like finding the right one is nearly impossible. Many of you will take what you can get because you don’t think you deserve better. Others don’t seem to know the difference between genuine affection or interest and the assholes who are waiting in wings for you.
I often go on lengthy diatribes about what’s okay and what isn’t between a Dominant and a submissive. I also frequently go on rants because people are made to feel that normal, healthy desires or sexual activities can’t have a place in BDSM. For anyone who doesn’t have the time for all that, here’s a handy-dandy list of what separates the Dominants from the assholes so you’ll know one when you find them.
Note: This is directed at male Dominants for two reasons. One, that’s my main experience, and two, I’ve never heard of Dommes pulling this kind of crap. If they do, share with me in the comments below so everyone can be aware.
He demands you call him Sir or Master from the moment you meet. You’re a submissive, not his submissive. I advocate being respectful until he gives you a reason not to be, but anyone who demands a title before it’s earned needs to be ignored.
He starts out an introduction with a dick pic. No Dominant is going to send you this without some sort of agreement between the two of you. It’s just not going to happen.
He sends you unsolicited instructions of how to please him or orders to obey. Did you talk about this list? Was there communication and consent? If not, this is just another poser.
He ignores your hard limits. Don’t just walk away from this loser, fucking run. Ignoring your clearly identified and communicated limits is the sign of an asshole and an abuser. A Dominant will push your limits, sure, but not without first talking to you – a lot.
He disregards your safe word. Yes, some Dominants out there claim not to play with a safe word. I find that dicey but won’t pass too much judgment. If you use a safe word, though, it should be respected. Ignoring this is just more abuse.
He lies. I know some people will say that everyone lies. White lies to save face or feelings. Most Dominants I know are honest to a fault. Think about it. How can you communicate openly and honestly if you’ll lie about things – big or small? John Brownstone doesn’t lie; he simply refrains from speaking until the time is right to tell the truth. I can respect that.
He thinks more about his pleasure than your own. Caveat: if you’ve negotiated a relationship where this is acceptable to both of you (yes, that’s possible), that’s okay. Not my kink, but okay. I’m referring to the jerk who gets off and then ignores you or doesn’t listen when you tell him your preferences.
He makes you feel bad about yourself. I’m not talking about a humiliation fetish in the middle of a scene or even as part of an on-going relationship. I’m talking about the soul-sucking, self-esteem shattering bullshit that makes you feel less than human and unworthy of love and affection. D/s should build both people up, not tear you down.
He separates you from family and friends. Okay, let’s be honest here. Some people are just bad for us. They make us feel bad and doubt our self worth. I don’t mean those people. I’m talking about loving relationships with friends and family. A good Dominant wants a happy, healthy submissive – and isolating you from people who care about you won’t achieve that. Frankly, it will simply show that he’s selfish and, most likely, insecure.
He tells you that you’re not a “real” submissive because you have your own opinions. In a D/s relationship, how you express those opinions will vary based on your consensual, negotiated agreement but you should always have your own opinions. The other flavor that goes with this one is that you’re not a real submissive because you’re too independent, aggressive, or (best of all) not willing to do what you’re told by someone you just met who claims to be a Dominant. (Insert big, fat eyeroll.)
Assuming you’re online when these things occur (and it usually does), I also think you can be proactive in dealing with these men. First of all, you are under no obligation to reply to a message that includes anything you find offensive. If you tell them to stop or to leave you alone, you can and should ignore them. You don’t have to continue following or being “friends” with these people online. The unfollow, unfriend, and block features are all there for a reason. Use them. If it crosses over to harassment, you should report them to whichever site you’re on.
Once you’re in a relationship, you must remember that you’re free to end it. You are allowed to withdraw your consent. If he doesn’t listen, he’s no longer acting as a Dominant. Now he’s an abuser. And he should be treated as such – even if that means getting the law involved. Your physical, emotional, and mental well-being truly are that important.
If someone does a couple of the things on this list, they might (but I doubt it) simply be too new to understand how D/s really works. I’d give them the benefit of the doubt, but I’d also move on and not engage with them. Let them learn the hard way – or end up alone, either way works for me. When you come across the guy who does most of these things, he’s not a Dominant. He’s an asshole. Don’t waste your time or breath on him.
You are worth more than that, and you need to remember it and believe it.
Taken from http://kaylalords.com
Wednesday, 7 January 2015
10 Ways to make your Submissive feel owned
1. Challenge them.
Don't be lazy when giving tasks. Give them a task that allows them to impress you. If you tell them to wear a certain color of panties/underpants, you are giving them a very closed task. It's either failed or succeeded.
Be creative and they will be.
2. Think about them.
As a Submissive they will idealy think of you a lot. Return the favour. Message them when you miss them. Remember important things for them. You may care, but you have to make them feel like you care.
3. Listen to them.
Be open to their suggestions, their issues, the things they wish to talk about. Often when someone tells you of a problem, they know you can't provide a solution... They merely want a listening ear, so provide it.
4. Have fun with them outside of kink.
Watch a movie with them, joke with them, flirt. Dare to be silly and be open to just stepping outside the little comfort zone that is kink. They aren't just your plaything, and they deserve to be more.
5. Be honest.
If something dissatisfies you about them, tell them. Don't be rude, don't be mean, but let them know. Nothing's worse than feeling something is wrong and not knowing what. At least give them the chance to improve on it, if you cannot ignore it.
6. Communicate.
Communication is so vital. I know it pretty much what I said in the past few points, but it deserves one on its own. Don't just mindlessly churn out tasks, don't just play. Be a friend to them.
7. Don't turn your back on them.
It's not all sunshine and rainbows in any relationships. Things may go shitty in their life, or they may go shitty in your life. If they ask for your help, at the very least, make sure you are there to listen how you can help and if you can help.
8. Give rules and guidelines.
When you aren't around leave specific instruction on what to do and when; Then in spite of your absence they will still feel like they are pleasing you.
9. Be trustworthy.
Nothing makes you feel less of a person than being lied to. You are their owner, you are responsible for them. If you don't make yourself worthy of that right, it's not ending well.
10. Work on it!
Seriously. Don't be lazy. Don't slack off. How would you treat them if they did? You have expectations, but you also have duties and if you don't fulfill those duties you will sooner or later lose them to someone who will.
Don't be lazy when giving tasks. Give them a task that allows them to impress you. If you tell them to wear a certain color of panties/underpants, you are giving them a very closed task. It's either failed or succeeded.
Be creative and they will be.
2. Think about them.
As a Submissive they will idealy think of you a lot. Return the favour. Message them when you miss them. Remember important things for them. You may care, but you have to make them feel like you care.
3. Listen to them.
Be open to their suggestions, their issues, the things they wish to talk about. Often when someone tells you of a problem, they know you can't provide a solution... They merely want a listening ear, so provide it.
4. Have fun with them outside of kink.
Watch a movie with them, joke with them, flirt. Dare to be silly and be open to just stepping outside the little comfort zone that is kink. They aren't just your plaything, and they deserve to be more.
5. Be honest.
If something dissatisfies you about them, tell them. Don't be rude, don't be mean, but let them know. Nothing's worse than feeling something is wrong and not knowing what. At least give them the chance to improve on it, if you cannot ignore it.
6. Communicate.
Communication is so vital. I know it pretty much what I said in the past few points, but it deserves one on its own. Don't just mindlessly churn out tasks, don't just play. Be a friend to them.
7. Don't turn your back on them.
It's not all sunshine and rainbows in any relationships. Things may go shitty in their life, or they may go shitty in your life. If they ask for your help, at the very least, make sure you are there to listen how you can help and if you can help.
8. Give rules and guidelines.
When you aren't around leave specific instruction on what to do and when; Then in spite of your absence they will still feel like they are pleasing you.
9. Be trustworthy.
Nothing makes you feel less of a person than being lied to. You are their owner, you are responsible for them. If you don't make yourself worthy of that right, it's not ending well.
10. Work on it!
Seriously. Don't be lazy. Don't slack off. How would you treat them if they did? You have expectations, but you also have duties and if you don't fulfill those duties you will sooner or later lose them to someone who will.
Tuesday, 23 December 2014
10 Things a Guy Can Do for a Girl Who Has Trouble Orgasming
Here is something which I should really read up good and learned it by heart! Something for you guys to read and girls? Well, the girls can read too and please give me your opinions as well. An extra tip is always encouraged.
1. First and most important: ACCEPT THAT SHE CAN'T ALWAYS CUM. Sometimes it just isn't going to happen and that's okay. Every few months I have a day where I spend an hour doggedly trying to get myself off with absolutely nothing to show for it. I'm horny, hydrated, relaxed, enjoying the same fantasies/porn, using techniques that usually guarantee an orgasm within 5-20 minutes, but it's just not happening. There's no rhyme or reason to it.
2. Ancillary to this: accept that SHE DOESN'T ALWAYS WANT TO CUM. As a woman with complicated sexual proclivities, I can attest to the fact that orgasms are pretty far down the list of my goals. I can get myself off most any time, but if I'm by myself, who exactly am I going to order to kneel? Whose ass am I going to spank? If I have to choose between spending the average 20 minutes it takes to get off getting my pussy played with or a complex scene in which I tie someone up and stick a vibrator up their ass, I'll often chose the latter. It's my choice and any man who wants to stay in my life better sure as shit respect it.
3. DON'T MAKE IT ABOUT YOU. JUST DON’T. Not getting her to cum doesn't make you a failure. It doesn't mean you're not a man or not a good lover. It doesn't mean she'll immediately boot you out on your ass. If you want to be a real man, let it be about her and don't get all butt hurt or insecure or accusatory if she doesn't get there. Eventually, she'll either start faking because it's easier or she'll dump your myopic, self-centered, entitled little ass in favor of someone whose ego doesn't need constant service.
4. TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF. Seriously, don't make her feel like she owes it to you to cum. Never say "but I want to see you cum, baby" or "I'm not going to cum until you do" or "I'll feel bad if you don't" or, worst, "is there something wrong with you?" Ironically, trying really hard to cum makes it even harder to cum. Unless, of course, these things are part of a dynamic you BOTH agree you enjoy.
5. JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED TO CUM, DOESN'T MEAN IT'S SUDDENLY ALL ABOUT YOUR ORGASM. I'm quite happy to have a disproportionate orgasm ratio. I enjoy not having the pressure always on and I still love watching my partners come apart. But some take this for granted. They start thinking that every time we have sex is just a race to their orgasm, the end. These people get punted.
6. WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING HERSELF OFF, SHE'S ALWAYS RIGHT. If she needs a vibrator, let her use it. And if you're threatened by it, yes, you are less of a man. If she needs you to stand on one foot and hop three times, do it. Seriously, whatever it is, no matter how weird or unsexy for you, go along with it. By all means, find new things to try, but if she knows what works, you have to respect it or risk her losing respect for you. Just because you're Don Juan, King of the Clitoris Delta, does not mean that you know her body better than she does. Also, you should really learn how to use that vibrator. It won’t bite. I promise.
7. DON'T STOP HER FROM MASTURBATING. Sometimes the quickest most satisfying way for her to cum is with herself. That might mean she gets you off and then masturbates after. It might be a sexy exhibitionist/voyeuristic thing. It might even be that you have to go watch TV in the living room while she has fun with the showerhead. Just think for second: how long can you go without an orgasm without getting a little testy? How long would you stay with someone who doesn't let you cum as much as you want?
8. IF YOU ARE GOING DOWN/FINGERING/ETC. AND SOMETHING IS REALLY WORKING FOR HER, DON'T FUCKING STOP. Seriously, don't stop. Don’t think you need to change it up. A lot of girls who have trouble coming with partners but can cum on their own (especially with toys) need steady, repeated motion in order to get there. Other girls really like the variety. But nothing sucks more than to almost be there and then be thwarted because your partner wants to fix something that’s not broken.
9. This is the hardest one, but, trust me, IF YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY SURE SHE FAKES, CALL HER ON IT. Faking orgasms is the vicious spiral that slowly leads to relationship death. Here’s how it goes: girl is self-conscious to be a difficult cum; girl initially fakes orgasms either to win guy over or because she doesn't think the relationship will last; relationship lasts long enough that girl starts wanting real orgasms; girl doesn't feel like she can demand them now that she lied; girl feels bitter for not getting orgasms; girl feels resentment towards guy for benefiting from a system that encourages her to lie for his pleasure; girl either dumps guy or stops faking; guy feels terrible/angry/bitter for either being dumped or lied to.
10. I lied. This is the hardest one. COMMUNICATE. I know it’s not very sexy to a lot of you, but there a quite a lot of us that get off on communication, especially when that communication is going to give us things that we want. Both you and she might be reluctant to talk about her pleasure. It’s a subject that is treated with an awful mix of taboo and titillation in our society, so it’s hard sometimes to wrap your head around the fact that not all sex talk is ‘dirty talk’ (whether you find wallowing in the dirt to be sexy is ultimately immaterial - it’s still a diversion from the frank talk that needs to happen). So, even if it’s not sexy, talk about her pleasure and what works for her. Ask her to give comment on your technique. Ask her to correct you when you're going down. Ask her if she wants to orgasm. If you're frustrated or neglected, explain why you're feeling frustrated instead of bottling it up. Tell her why you love eating her pussy. Tell her that you want to try something new. The more you open up to her and let her open up to you, the easier it will be for her to cum and the easier it will be for her to ask you to try new things.
If she doesn't know what she wants, don’t make fun. If she wants to experiment, don’t get so lost in fantasy that you don’t hear what she’s saying afterwards. And if she shows the awful scars of the shame that our society has taught her to feel about her own orgasm or lack thereof, be supportive and loving and don’t think about yourself one bit. Those men, those are the keepers.
1. First and most important: ACCEPT THAT SHE CAN'T ALWAYS CUM. Sometimes it just isn't going to happen and that's okay. Every few months I have a day where I spend an hour doggedly trying to get myself off with absolutely nothing to show for it. I'm horny, hydrated, relaxed, enjoying the same fantasies/porn, using techniques that usually guarantee an orgasm within 5-20 minutes, but it's just not happening. There's no rhyme or reason to it.
2. Ancillary to this: accept that SHE DOESN'T ALWAYS WANT TO CUM. As a woman with complicated sexual proclivities, I can attest to the fact that orgasms are pretty far down the list of my goals. I can get myself off most any time, but if I'm by myself, who exactly am I going to order to kneel? Whose ass am I going to spank? If I have to choose between spending the average 20 minutes it takes to get off getting my pussy played with or a complex scene in which I tie someone up and stick a vibrator up their ass, I'll often chose the latter. It's my choice and any man who wants to stay in my life better sure as shit respect it.
3. DON'T MAKE IT ABOUT YOU. JUST DON’T. Not getting her to cum doesn't make you a failure. It doesn't mean you're not a man or not a good lover. It doesn't mean she'll immediately boot you out on your ass. If you want to be a real man, let it be about her and don't get all butt hurt or insecure or accusatory if she doesn't get there. Eventually, she'll either start faking because it's easier or she'll dump your myopic, self-centered, entitled little ass in favor of someone whose ego doesn't need constant service.
4. TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF. Seriously, don't make her feel like she owes it to you to cum. Never say "but I want to see you cum, baby" or "I'm not going to cum until you do" or "I'll feel bad if you don't" or, worst, "is there something wrong with you?" Ironically, trying really hard to cum makes it even harder to cum. Unless, of course, these things are part of a dynamic you BOTH agree you enjoy.
5. JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T NEED TO CUM, DOESN'T MEAN IT'S SUDDENLY ALL ABOUT YOUR ORGASM. I'm quite happy to have a disproportionate orgasm ratio. I enjoy not having the pressure always on and I still love watching my partners come apart. But some take this for granted. They start thinking that every time we have sex is just a race to their orgasm, the end. These people get punted.
6. WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING HERSELF OFF, SHE'S ALWAYS RIGHT. If she needs a vibrator, let her use it. And if you're threatened by it, yes, you are less of a man. If she needs you to stand on one foot and hop three times, do it. Seriously, whatever it is, no matter how weird or unsexy for you, go along with it. By all means, find new things to try, but if she knows what works, you have to respect it or risk her losing respect for you. Just because you're Don Juan, King of the Clitoris Delta, does not mean that you know her body better than she does. Also, you should really learn how to use that vibrator. It won’t bite. I promise.
7. DON'T STOP HER FROM MASTURBATING. Sometimes the quickest most satisfying way for her to cum is with herself. That might mean she gets you off and then masturbates after. It might be a sexy exhibitionist/voyeuristic thing. It might even be that you have to go watch TV in the living room while she has fun with the showerhead. Just think for second: how long can you go without an orgasm without getting a little testy? How long would you stay with someone who doesn't let you cum as much as you want?
8. IF YOU ARE GOING DOWN/FINGERING/ETC. AND SOMETHING IS REALLY WORKING FOR HER, DON'T FUCKING STOP. Seriously, don't stop. Don’t think you need to change it up. A lot of girls who have trouble coming with partners but can cum on their own (especially with toys) need steady, repeated motion in order to get there. Other girls really like the variety. But nothing sucks more than to almost be there and then be thwarted because your partner wants to fix something that’s not broken.
9. This is the hardest one, but, trust me, IF YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY SURE SHE FAKES, CALL HER ON IT. Faking orgasms is the vicious spiral that slowly leads to relationship death. Here’s how it goes: girl is self-conscious to be a difficult cum; girl initially fakes orgasms either to win guy over or because she doesn't think the relationship will last; relationship lasts long enough that girl starts wanting real orgasms; girl doesn't feel like she can demand them now that she lied; girl feels bitter for not getting orgasms; girl feels resentment towards guy for benefiting from a system that encourages her to lie for his pleasure; girl either dumps guy or stops faking; guy feels terrible/angry/bitter for either being dumped or lied to.
10. I lied. This is the hardest one. COMMUNICATE. I know it’s not very sexy to a lot of you, but there a quite a lot of us that get off on communication, especially when that communication is going to give us things that we want. Both you and she might be reluctant to talk about her pleasure. It’s a subject that is treated with an awful mix of taboo and titillation in our society, so it’s hard sometimes to wrap your head around the fact that not all sex talk is ‘dirty talk’ (whether you find wallowing in the dirt to be sexy is ultimately immaterial - it’s still a diversion from the frank talk that needs to happen). So, even if it’s not sexy, talk about her pleasure and what works for her. Ask her to give comment on your technique. Ask her to correct you when you're going down. Ask her if she wants to orgasm. If you're frustrated or neglected, explain why you're feeling frustrated instead of bottling it up. Tell her why you love eating her pussy. Tell her that you want to try something new. The more you open up to her and let her open up to you, the easier it will be for her to cum and the easier it will be for her to ask you to try new things.
If she doesn't know what she wants, don’t make fun. If she wants to experiment, don’t get so lost in fantasy that you don’t hear what she’s saying afterwards. And if she shows the awful scars of the shame that our society has taught her to feel about her own orgasm or lack thereof, be supportive and loving and don’t think about yourself one bit. Those men, those are the keepers.
How to spot a good Dominant
I came across this article posted by a fellow kinkster. I felt that I'm somewhat some of the ethics which applies to myself as a Dominant. I'm sharing it to you and hope you have an agreement with it as well.
Finding a man is no easy task for submissive ladies. It seems many women do not understand the red flags signalling “Beware.”
- A dominant man will not start off by with, 'Bow down on your knees upon receipt of my message!' There seems to be many complaints from women about this kind of ploy as first introduction, and this is reason alone to 'block n’ move on.' (I would advise ladies to use this tactic often and liberally rather than engage in argument or flame wars…life is too short.). Ignore the Insta-Dom.
- A dominant man will not seem ‘desperate’ for your attention. Getting dates or getting laid is not his problem; he can find women on kink sites, at work, or in the grocery store. He knows women, and women are drawn to him. Many women, kink or vanilla, prefer a man who is take-charge both in the bedroom and in life. If a 'Dom' becomes frantic, anxious, or despairing because you don’t write him back every other hour, chances are he has a hard time with the fairer sex. The good news is desperation is easy to spot.
- A dominant man most often will be successful, a maverick, or at least happy in his chosen profession. If he has had some bad luck in his past, it will be fleeting, for he will strive relentlessly to place his universe back into the order mandatory to his existence. If your suitor languishes in poverty, unemployment for years, or hates his job, most likely his dominance is merely a cover-up to appease his lack of success. Though he may not be the millionaire, look for the man who is happy, confident, unique, and/or successful in his chosen endeavour.
- A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him.
- A dominant man is likely to be damn good in the sack. Most men have their hands full with straight-up vanilla sex. The dominant man has either mastered or has no interest in such elementary play, at least not all the time. Making a woman orgasm many times has left him bereft of sport, so he now seeks a woman who will challenge him on other levels. The dominant guy is going to have a good understanding of the female anatomy, and will persist in finding the keys to your body and mind. He will have done his homework and already experimented in real-time on many lovers. He will be a bit of the Don Juan, if not Don himself; not a womaniser per se, but certainly sexually advanced.
- A dominant man may have all the accoutrement of kink (the whips, chains, and whatnot), but he will not need them to be dominant. A whisper, a word, a look, a swagger, and a touch are the essence of his talent. Confidence is his weapon of choice, not bragging about his dungeon. Those who tout their toys too highly might well be lacking in other departments.
- A dominant man will be very cautious in selecting you because he knows you have great desires, hopes, and dreams, and it is he that has to live up to them. Above all things he will wish to be good for you. He attempts to choose wisely but may at first make many mistakes in his choices as he finds his way.
- A dominant man will make mistakes and have no fear admitting them. The dominant guy knows he is not All Knowing, for he is human. A guy who believes he never makes mistakes or does not admit to them with good cheer is most likely not dominant.
- A dominant man will never send you a cock shot at first greeting and it is highly unlikely that he’ll have one on his profile.
- A dominant man will not beg you for naked photographs. In fact, he won’t beg for anything. He will simply wait till you’re dying to send him your naughty pictures unsolicited and accept them with lordly composure (or a rock hard-on, depending on the photo).
- A dominant man will never lie about being married or already having a girlfriend. If he’s married to vanilla, he’ll simply say so. If he’s dating vanilla, he’ll break up with her before venturing in with another (less he’s doing a poly thing and brings her along, or in an open relationship). The dominant guy is straightforward, will wish to be plain about his true desires and needs, and if he is attached, will be forthcoming with that information. If he’s cheating on his vanilla wife, he will say so. He made his choice and is going for it.
- A dominant man won’t lie about much, though he surely will keep some of his thoughts from you. A Dom who feels swallowing golden showers to be right up your alley may well know telling you straight out might have you running for cover. This is not in itself lying, he’s just taking the appropriate steps first and at the speed he thinks you can absorb them (he may well discard such thoughts as he gets to know you; he will discard his thoughts often). The lying 'dom' will have an agenda that has no bearing on your needs. The real dominant guy wants no part of someone for whom he cannot be good. A man who attempts to get with a woman he cannot handle or vice versa is desperate.
- A dominant man will not be heavy handed in his approach. He will be skilled at drawing you in, opening you up, making you feel at ease or on edge (depending on his tastes). His efforts will seem effortless; even aloof at times. He will grow on you. Capture you. Enlighten you and make things seem clear that may have been once blurry. You will feel better about yourself when communicating with him (even if your desire is to live in debasement!). Only an impostor will try to tear you down in order to raise himself to higher ground. The dominate gets off by watching you soar, not fall.
In essence, taking on a submissive is both invigorating and empowering yet also a humbling experience. He may err constantly, particularly if he is new. Yet he will always, always strive to be better, and though longs and seeks challenge, he will avoid that which he knows he cannot handle, or will in some near future be unable to handle. It may take time but he will understand his own limits as well as his woman’s.
A submissive is a truckload of challenge (ask their ex-vanilla lovers), and so the dominant man needs you like he needs air. He wants your worship not simply for worship sake but because he has gone beyond the call of the norm, ventured into the realm of risk, and passing across the dangerous abyss where footing is treacherous, hopefully breaks into the sunshine of success offering you something glorious. THAT alone is why he seeks your worship; because he has earned it and deserves it.
If a man does not seek risk and challenge in his life, if he wishes worship without venturing his ego, if he does not persist continually toward excellence in handling a woman as he does in many things, he is not a dominant man.
Happy hunting!
~Author Unknown
I'm sure this could be applied to Dommes as well but I didn't want to change the writing but hopefully the point comes home.
Finding a man is no easy task for submissive ladies. It seems many women do not understand the red flags signalling “Beware.”
- A dominant man will not start off by with, 'Bow down on your knees upon receipt of my message!' There seems to be many complaints from women about this kind of ploy as first introduction, and this is reason alone to 'block n’ move on.' (I would advise ladies to use this tactic often and liberally rather than engage in argument or flame wars…life is too short.). Ignore the Insta-Dom.
- A dominant man will not seem ‘desperate’ for your attention. Getting dates or getting laid is not his problem; he can find women on kink sites, at work, or in the grocery store. He knows women, and women are drawn to him. Many women, kink or vanilla, prefer a man who is take-charge both in the bedroom and in life. If a 'Dom' becomes frantic, anxious, or despairing because you don’t write him back every other hour, chances are he has a hard time with the fairer sex. The good news is desperation is easy to spot.
- A dominant man most often will be successful, a maverick, or at least happy in his chosen profession. If he has had some bad luck in his past, it will be fleeting, for he will strive relentlessly to place his universe back into the order mandatory to his existence. If your suitor languishes in poverty, unemployment for years, or hates his job, most likely his dominance is merely a cover-up to appease his lack of success. Though he may not be the millionaire, look for the man who is happy, confident, unique, and/or successful in his chosen endeavour.
- A dominant man will be very interested in you, and not just your sexual needs (though they will certainly get his attention). He will see you as a puzzle, and desire to make sense of that puzzle. The dominant guy loves challenge and that in essence is why so many submissives find disillusion in the vanilla world; most men do not seek challenge in sensuality, they fear it. Submissive women are the most challenging of lovers for they have great fantasy. Their fantasies often require a man to move far outside normal gestures requiring both skill and creativity. How you think about a myriad of criterion will be of great interest to him.
- A dominant man is likely to be damn good in the sack. Most men have their hands full with straight-up vanilla sex. The dominant man has either mastered or has no interest in such elementary play, at least not all the time. Making a woman orgasm many times has left him bereft of sport, so he now seeks a woman who will challenge him on other levels. The dominant guy is going to have a good understanding of the female anatomy, and will persist in finding the keys to your body and mind. He will have done his homework and already experimented in real-time on many lovers. He will be a bit of the Don Juan, if not Don himself; not a womaniser per se, but certainly sexually advanced.
- A dominant man may have all the accoutrement of kink (the whips, chains, and whatnot), but he will not need them to be dominant. A whisper, a word, a look, a swagger, and a touch are the essence of his talent. Confidence is his weapon of choice, not bragging about his dungeon. Those who tout their toys too highly might well be lacking in other departments.
- A dominant man will be very cautious in selecting you because he knows you have great desires, hopes, and dreams, and it is he that has to live up to them. Above all things he will wish to be good for you. He attempts to choose wisely but may at first make many mistakes in his choices as he finds his way.
- A dominant man will make mistakes and have no fear admitting them. The dominant guy knows he is not All Knowing, for he is human. A guy who believes he never makes mistakes or does not admit to them with good cheer is most likely not dominant.
- A dominant man will never send you a cock shot at first greeting and it is highly unlikely that he’ll have one on his profile.
- A dominant man will not beg you for naked photographs. In fact, he won’t beg for anything. He will simply wait till you’re dying to send him your naughty pictures unsolicited and accept them with lordly composure (or a rock hard-on, depending on the photo).
- A dominant man will never lie about being married or already having a girlfriend. If he’s married to vanilla, he’ll simply say so. If he’s dating vanilla, he’ll break up with her before venturing in with another (less he’s doing a poly thing and brings her along, or in an open relationship). The dominant guy is straightforward, will wish to be plain about his true desires and needs, and if he is attached, will be forthcoming with that information. If he’s cheating on his vanilla wife, he will say so. He made his choice and is going for it.
- A dominant man won’t lie about much, though he surely will keep some of his thoughts from you. A Dom who feels swallowing golden showers to be right up your alley may well know telling you straight out might have you running for cover. This is not in itself lying, he’s just taking the appropriate steps first and at the speed he thinks you can absorb them (he may well discard such thoughts as he gets to know you; he will discard his thoughts often). The lying 'dom' will have an agenda that has no bearing on your needs. The real dominant guy wants no part of someone for whom he cannot be good. A man who attempts to get with a woman he cannot handle or vice versa is desperate.
- A dominant man will not be heavy handed in his approach. He will be skilled at drawing you in, opening you up, making you feel at ease or on edge (depending on his tastes). His efforts will seem effortless; even aloof at times. He will grow on you. Capture you. Enlighten you and make things seem clear that may have been once blurry. You will feel better about yourself when communicating with him (even if your desire is to live in debasement!). Only an impostor will try to tear you down in order to raise himself to higher ground. The dominate gets off by watching you soar, not fall.
In essence, taking on a submissive is both invigorating and empowering yet also a humbling experience. He may err constantly, particularly if he is new. Yet he will always, always strive to be better, and though longs and seeks challenge, he will avoid that which he knows he cannot handle, or will in some near future be unable to handle. It may take time but he will understand his own limits as well as his woman’s.
A submissive is a truckload of challenge (ask their ex-vanilla lovers), and so the dominant man needs you like he needs air. He wants your worship not simply for worship sake but because he has gone beyond the call of the norm, ventured into the realm of risk, and passing across the dangerous abyss where footing is treacherous, hopefully breaks into the sunshine of success offering you something glorious. THAT alone is why he seeks your worship; because he has earned it and deserves it.
If a man does not seek risk and challenge in his life, if he wishes worship without venturing his ego, if he does not persist continually toward excellence in handling a woman as he does in many things, he is not a dominant man.
Happy hunting!
~Author Unknown
I'm sure this could be applied to Dommes as well but I didn't want to change the writing but hopefully the point comes home.
Thursday, 17 April 2014
Nice time at duty free shop at the airport
Returning back to KL after my flight trip to Singapore, I decided to stop by at the gift shop to window shop for any gifts for my colleagues in the office. At the same time, looking if I can find something nice for myself as well at the duty free shops. A sales lady approached me, asking if I needed any assistance. I decline as to just wanting to browse the shop. While I was browsing, she occasionally introduce some of the items on display, if it was a watch there are brands like Alan Delon, Edifice, Tag Heuer, etc. I continued on my shelves browsing, and walked to the men's belt section. While picking out some of the belts, I accidentally drop a belt on the floor. She bend down to pick up the fallen belt and as she was doing that, I caught a glimpse of her cleavage. At the same moment, she looked up and smiled at me. A normal lady would usually quickly place her hands on her chest to cover, but this lady did something much more sensual, she ran her fingers from wetting her finger with her tongue and ran it downwards from her neck to her cleavage area. Feeling overwhelmed by her kinky gesture, an instant hard-on reaches my crotch. I smiled at her and pretended to be calmed about it. I apologize for dropping the belt and asked for her assistance in choosing the belt length that I want.
"Excuse me, miss. Do you have a longer length belt?", I asked. She took a belt off the shelf and instead of handing it to me, she place it around my waist. Both my hands instantly raised up and promptly let her place the belt around my waist. I felt her hands reaching and fondling my upper butt. Not wanting to attract too much attention or a sudden scream from an unfamiliar sales lady in public, I just let her do what she wanted to do. Besides, I'm feeling a hard-on and sexual erection, I guess, I'm just one of the lucky guys to be feeling this way right now. As she pulls the belt buckle near to my front, she suddenly grab what I can describe as a real hard-on and showing kind of an erection. It was as if she knew I would be having an erection. I was pretty certain that any guy would be having an erection too with the stunt that she just pulled. She then ask me, "Sir, would you like to join me for dinner in 10 minutes time? I'm getting off from work by then." It was an invitation with lots of wild imagination running across my head. I was a little skeptical with her while thinking "Does she do that to every guy that comes into the shop?". Then she spoke "I'm sorry, sir. I don't usually ask this question. Don't think me that I'm that kind of girl asking every guy that walks in here to take me out for dinner or anything like that. I saw you helping the security trip over the snatch thief earlier and I was sort of smitten by your kind and brave gesture." She looks like a nice lady, a little older than me, short hair, slim near to thin body line, but still with good handful breast size. "Just want to have dinner with you. Nothing more" she added. I agreed and we made arrangements to meet up after her shift ends.
When her shift was over, she met me at a nearby cafe where I was waiting drinking. She greeted me and asked me to join her to her car. I questioned her "Aren't we going for a dinner?" She replied, "Yes, but not at the airport. Airport food is too overrated and the price is expensive. I thought of bringing you over to this restaurant nearby my place. It serves the best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I hope that's ok with you?" I nodded with approval and followed her to her car. We had a good time chatting along the way to the restaurant and the food was delicious as she mentioned, best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I then followed her back to her house as during the time of our 'good time chatting', I told her that I was a Computer Technical Engineer. She has a computer at home and has been always giving her problems. So, I in return for a good meal, decided to help her out by checking out her computer problem.
She lead me into her apartment. She apologize for the mess as she didn't have much time cleaning due to her roommate leaving. She showed me her computer and I start my diagnostic work.
As I was fixing what seems to be causing the problem, she appeared in-front of me. I noticed a her legs was bare. As I look up, she was wearing a black netted bodysuit! It was just that and nothing else. I could see her nipples pointed against the bodysuit. I could see her clean shaved pussy. She was looking at me seductively. I was surprised and as usual, my erection is as usual, instantly hard-on. She bend down on her knees and started to move her hands touching my thigh as I was seated in the chair. She runs her fingered nails along my thigh, I leaned back and take in the sensational tingling of her hand movements. She then pushed her body forward, pressing her chest and breast along my thigh. In return, I'm feeling fucking exciting just holding on to the edge of the seat with both my hands pressed tight on the chair handle as some areas near my hard-on crotch were a little ticklish.
She unbuckle my belt and pants, pulling them down to my ankle. She then sniffed my hard-on cock hidden behind my boxers. She rubs her mouth and face over my cock and half tempting bites or grinding her teeth on my cock. She then pulls my boxers revealing my now stand up ovation hard cock. Our eyes met which she looked into my eyes, grabbed my hard cock and kissed it and then puts it in mouth full. Her eyes never left my gaze as I watch her suck and twirl her tongue around my now hard throbbing cock.
My body temperature heats up. My mind boggling with sensation. She fucks my cock with her mouth, salivating my cock till its wet and slimy. She then grabs my cock in one hand and sits on my lap. My cock was pressed down by her wet warm pussy. It was the best feeling ever! She slowly move front and back as if sliding and rubbing my cock's foreskin away revealing my mushroom head. Our lips finally met and we both sucking and tonguing passionately. I had my hands at the back of her waist giving her the much support not to fall off to the back and at the same time pulling her forth towards as she slides back. Her hands were busily unbuttoning my shirt and taking them off. We broke off from our intense kissing to catch our breaths at the part when she was done unbuttoning my shirt and pushing it off my chest. I head front to start kissing her neck and sucking her pointed erected nipples through her netted body suit. She pulls down her bodysuit by the shoulder revealing her bouncy breast as if guiding me to suck on her nipples directly through the flesh instead of through the bodysuit. I had my tongue twirling around her nipples and grinding my teeth gently the nipples. She gasp of a refreshing moan of releasing pleasure as I gushed out some hot breath while getting my breath. "Bite me" she squealed. "Bite my breast, oh please!" She pleaded. I nibbled and sucked her breast flesh area near her nipples. "Umm.. ughhh.. ooohhh.. harder please, harder!" she instructed me. Bite marks were now visible reddish.
I then take the lead, I leaned forward, standing up and carrying her upwards. Moving to the room where her bedroom is. Placed her lying flat at her back. I chuck my pants and boxers off on the floor and took of my shirt which was dangling on my shoulders. My turn to kneel down. Both of us gazed each other for a while. Then I pull her bodysuit up revealing her wet warm and moist pussy. I wet my fingers with my own saliva and finger her clitoris in a circular motion. She tilted her head to the back pressing the bed till her shoulders arched up. Her hands pressed against the bed, her waist lifted up as I fingered her. I placed my lips and tongue against her clitoris, vigorously licking her vagina lips. she gushed out another moan. This time louder than previous ones. I continued to tongue her vaginal glans. She is squirming her body and moaning with pleasure. Her hands now grabbing and stroking my hair. I lifted my hands to grab and hold her hands by the fingers. I breath occasionally by pausing licks on her clitoris.
She thug my hand up, as if letting me know that she wants me to fuck her. I carried her and pushed her deeper on the bed space. I salivated my cock with my own saliva while she lifted her legs wide and with both her hands spreading her pussy. I gently teased her with my mushroom head against her clitoral glans. She gasp and moan "Please put it in, oh please fuck me". I gently pushed my cock into her vaginal opening and we both gasp out a sigh of air as the feeling was overwhelming with pleasure that's totally indescribable. I pushed my cock deeper in, and slowly pull it half way out and then begin the process of pumping and fucking her. She was in a trance. She was moaning "oh my gosh! oh my gosh!" multiple times as I was pounding her as I lifted her legs up and drilling her deeply. My legs were in a kneeling position. Her hands was clasping on my thigh as if pulling my body to thrust in deeper each time I pound her. After a few pounds, she sensed that my body is tiring; she lifts up her upper body as to guide me to lie down, so that she can ride me.
I lied down, my legs straighten and pulls the nearby pillow and placed it behind my head. Her turn to kneel and sit on me. She was careful at doing this as she didn't want my cock to slide out of her inside. Hence, starts her riding pace. I placed my hand on her waist as to pull her body towards me as she lifts her body up. I then graze my fingers and nails on her chest as if clawing her breast and nipples. She moans intensively. The bed starts to give off creaking noises. I can feel that she is feeling a little tired from riding me as her riding motion slows down. I gesture her to straddle down while she does that, I pulls her near and our lips met again, kissing passionately. Both our body are getting sweats even with the cool air conditioning in residing in the room. I instructed her to get on all fours near the edge of the bed while I came out of the bed in a standing position and readied myself to doggy her standing. She spreads her knees wider and lower so that I can guide my still harden cock into her vaginal hole from behind. She tilts her head forward as if like a bowing stance. I guided my cock into her and again, she gave a small squeal and moan as I insert my cock in. I pound her dogging stand while holding her waist. She tried to push her butt towards me but somehow, the synchronization of our motion doesn't seem to match, hence the flow was not good. I sensed that I should take the lead in pounding and fucking her nicely. I pull her arms up by her wrist and start the fucking and pounding motion again. This time, it was a deep push in and a less pull out making it a faster fucking deeply motion. She gasp and moan more and more loudly. She starts chanting "harder, oh harder, harder, harder, harder, oh yes please!". It felt good hearing her moan and chanting like that. I grunt as I increased my pounding pace and the thrust became louder as my crotch and thigh slaps against her butt making a whopping sound.
"Mmmm.. yes yes, I'm cumming. Oh gosh! I'm cumming" she starts to scream with almost like an intense trance as I can feel her body shivering even when I am pounding her. "Don't stop, please don't stop.. I can feel it, I'm cumming.. oh yes!" as she screams these words beneath her loud moan. At each grunt, as my hips were almost at the strenuous stage, I too can feel that my cock is pumping more blood and is about to shoot of my load. I too grunted "Ughh.. I'm cumming too.. I can feel it, its cumming" under my breath. She pleaded "cum inside me, please.. I want your cum inside me, please... let's cum together!". Those words was like a magic spell for us. At almost after few seconds, maybe 5 or 8 seconds, she let out a long gasp of air as if a balloon air was released. At the same time, I too felt an electric tingling feeling on my cock and a gushing of uncontrollable pressure leaving my body. We both came at the same time.
Both our bodies sort of drained in energy. Her body flopped back on bed panting. Same with me. My legs gave way as if out of energy and collapse into bed lying next beside her. Both of us were catching out breath as if we just dashed across the finish line in World's New 100m record of 9.58 seconds. Our intense sexual pleasure was actually one hour and 10 minutes. I turned to her as she turned towards me. We both smiled and kissed gently. We cuddled in a spooning position as I back hug her and we both went to sleep.
"Excuse me, miss. Do you have a longer length belt?", I asked. She took a belt off the shelf and instead of handing it to me, she place it around my waist. Both my hands instantly raised up and promptly let her place the belt around my waist. I felt her hands reaching and fondling my upper butt. Not wanting to attract too much attention or a sudden scream from an unfamiliar sales lady in public, I just let her do what she wanted to do. Besides, I'm feeling a hard-on and sexual erection, I guess, I'm just one of the lucky guys to be feeling this way right now. As she pulls the belt buckle near to my front, she suddenly grab what I can describe as a real hard-on and showing kind of an erection. It was as if she knew I would be having an erection. I was pretty certain that any guy would be having an erection too with the stunt that she just pulled. She then ask me, "Sir, would you like to join me for dinner in 10 minutes time? I'm getting off from work by then." It was an invitation with lots of wild imagination running across my head. I was a little skeptical with her while thinking "Does she do that to every guy that comes into the shop?". Then she spoke "I'm sorry, sir. I don't usually ask this question. Don't think me that I'm that kind of girl asking every guy that walks in here to take me out for dinner or anything like that. I saw you helping the security trip over the snatch thief earlier and I was sort of smitten by your kind and brave gesture." She looks like a nice lady, a little older than me, short hair, slim near to thin body line, but still with good handful breast size. "Just want to have dinner with you. Nothing more" she added. I agreed and we made arrangements to meet up after her shift ends.
When her shift was over, she met me at a nearby cafe where I was waiting drinking. She greeted me and asked me to join her to her car. I questioned her "Aren't we going for a dinner?" She replied, "Yes, but not at the airport. Airport food is too overrated and the price is expensive. I thought of bringing you over to this restaurant nearby my place. It serves the best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I hope that's ok with you?" I nodded with approval and followed her to her car. We had a good time chatting along the way to the restaurant and the food was delicious as she mentioned, best buttermilk fried chicken in town. I then followed her back to her house as during the time of our 'good time chatting', I told her that I was a Computer Technical Engineer. She has a computer at home and has been always giving her problems. So, I in return for a good meal, decided to help her out by checking out her computer problem.
She lead me into her apartment. She apologize for the mess as she didn't have much time cleaning due to her roommate leaving. She showed me her computer and I start my diagnostic work.
As I was fixing what seems to be causing the problem, she appeared in-front of me. I noticed a her legs was bare. As I look up, she was wearing a black netted bodysuit! It was just that and nothing else. I could see her nipples pointed against the bodysuit. I could see her clean shaved pussy. She was looking at me seductively. I was surprised and as usual, my erection is as usual, instantly hard-on. She bend down on her knees and started to move her hands touching my thigh as I was seated in the chair. She runs her fingered nails along my thigh, I leaned back and take in the sensational tingling of her hand movements. She then pushed her body forward, pressing her chest and breast along my thigh. In return, I'm feeling fucking exciting just holding on to the edge of the seat with both my hands pressed tight on the chair handle as some areas near my hard-on crotch were a little ticklish.
She unbuckle my belt and pants, pulling them down to my ankle. She then sniffed my hard-on cock hidden behind my boxers. She rubs her mouth and face over my cock and half tempting bites or grinding her teeth on my cock. She then pulls my boxers revealing my now stand up ovation hard cock. Our eyes met which she looked into my eyes, grabbed my hard cock and kissed it and then puts it in mouth full. Her eyes never left my gaze as I watch her suck and twirl her tongue around my now hard throbbing cock.
My body temperature heats up. My mind boggling with sensation. She fucks my cock with her mouth, salivating my cock till its wet and slimy. She then grabs my cock in one hand and sits on my lap. My cock was pressed down by her wet warm pussy. It was the best feeling ever! She slowly move front and back as if sliding and rubbing my cock's foreskin away revealing my mushroom head. Our lips finally met and we both sucking and tonguing passionately. I had my hands at the back of her waist giving her the much support not to fall off to the back and at the same time pulling her forth towards as she slides back. Her hands were busily unbuttoning my shirt and taking them off. We broke off from our intense kissing to catch our breaths at the part when she was done unbuttoning my shirt and pushing it off my chest. I head front to start kissing her neck and sucking her pointed erected nipples through her netted body suit. She pulls down her bodysuit by the shoulder revealing her bouncy breast as if guiding me to suck on her nipples directly through the flesh instead of through the bodysuit. I had my tongue twirling around her nipples and grinding my teeth gently the nipples. She gasp of a refreshing moan of releasing pleasure as I gushed out some hot breath while getting my breath. "Bite me" she squealed. "Bite my breast, oh please!" She pleaded. I nibbled and sucked her breast flesh area near her nipples. "Umm.. ughhh.. ooohhh.. harder please, harder!" she instructed me. Bite marks were now visible reddish.
I then take the lead, I leaned forward, standing up and carrying her upwards. Moving to the room where her bedroom is. Placed her lying flat at her back. I chuck my pants and boxers off on the floor and took of my shirt which was dangling on my shoulders. My turn to kneel down. Both of us gazed each other for a while. Then I pull her bodysuit up revealing her wet warm and moist pussy. I wet my fingers with my own saliva and finger her clitoris in a circular motion. She tilted her head to the back pressing the bed till her shoulders arched up. Her hands pressed against the bed, her waist lifted up as I fingered her. I placed my lips and tongue against her clitoris, vigorously licking her vagina lips. she gushed out another moan. This time louder than previous ones. I continued to tongue her vaginal glans. She is squirming her body and moaning with pleasure. Her hands now grabbing and stroking my hair. I lifted my hands to grab and hold her hands by the fingers. I breath occasionally by pausing licks on her clitoris.
She thug my hand up, as if letting me know that she wants me to fuck her. I carried her and pushed her deeper on the bed space. I salivated my cock with my own saliva while she lifted her legs wide and with both her hands spreading her pussy. I gently teased her with my mushroom head against her clitoral glans. She gasp and moan "Please put it in, oh please fuck me". I gently pushed my cock into her vaginal opening and we both gasp out a sigh of air as the feeling was overwhelming with pleasure that's totally indescribable. I pushed my cock deeper in, and slowly pull it half way out and then begin the process of pumping and fucking her. She was in a trance. She was moaning "oh my gosh! oh my gosh!" multiple times as I was pounding her as I lifted her legs up and drilling her deeply. My legs were in a kneeling position. Her hands was clasping on my thigh as if pulling my body to thrust in deeper each time I pound her. After a few pounds, she sensed that my body is tiring; she lifts up her upper body as to guide me to lie down, so that she can ride me.
I lied down, my legs straighten and pulls the nearby pillow and placed it behind my head. Her turn to kneel and sit on me. She was careful at doing this as she didn't want my cock to slide out of her inside. Hence, starts her riding pace. I placed my hand on her waist as to pull her body towards me as she lifts her body up. I then graze my fingers and nails on her chest as if clawing her breast and nipples. She moans intensively. The bed starts to give off creaking noises. I can feel that she is feeling a little tired from riding me as her riding motion slows down. I gesture her to straddle down while she does that, I pulls her near and our lips met again, kissing passionately. Both our body are getting sweats even with the cool air conditioning in residing in the room. I instructed her to get on all fours near the edge of the bed while I came out of the bed in a standing position and readied myself to doggy her standing. She spreads her knees wider and lower so that I can guide my still harden cock into her vaginal hole from behind. She tilts her head forward as if like a bowing stance. I guided my cock into her and again, she gave a small squeal and moan as I insert my cock in. I pound her dogging stand while holding her waist. She tried to push her butt towards me but somehow, the synchronization of our motion doesn't seem to match, hence the flow was not good. I sensed that I should take the lead in pounding and fucking her nicely. I pull her arms up by her wrist and start the fucking and pounding motion again. This time, it was a deep push in and a less pull out making it a faster fucking deeply motion. She gasp and moan more and more loudly. She starts chanting "harder, oh harder, harder, harder, harder, oh yes please!". It felt good hearing her moan and chanting like that. I grunt as I increased my pounding pace and the thrust became louder as my crotch and thigh slaps against her butt making a whopping sound.
"Mmmm.. yes yes, I'm cumming. Oh gosh! I'm cumming" she starts to scream with almost like an intense trance as I can feel her body shivering even when I am pounding her. "Don't stop, please don't stop.. I can feel it, I'm cumming.. oh yes!" as she screams these words beneath her loud moan. At each grunt, as my hips were almost at the strenuous stage, I too can feel that my cock is pumping more blood and is about to shoot of my load. I too grunted "Ughh.. I'm cumming too.. I can feel it, its cumming" under my breath. She pleaded "cum inside me, please.. I want your cum inside me, please... let's cum together!". Those words was like a magic spell for us. At almost after few seconds, maybe 5 or 8 seconds, she let out a long gasp of air as if a balloon air was released. At the same time, I too felt an electric tingling feeling on my cock and a gushing of uncontrollable pressure leaving my body. We both came at the same time.
Both our bodies sort of drained in energy. Her body flopped back on bed panting. Same with me. My legs gave way as if out of energy and collapse into bed lying next beside her. Both of us were catching out breath as if we just dashed across the finish line in World's New 100m record of 9.58 seconds. Our intense sexual pleasure was actually one hour and 10 minutes. I turned to her as she turned towards me. We both smiled and kissed gently. We cuddled in a spooning position as I back hug her and we both went to sleep.
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